Visitation

Visitation

The following material is presented as a work of a gentleman by the name of Bob D. Smith.  He created the bulk of this booklet prior to the mid-1960’s when it was reprinted as a local church work.   In the 2005 revision and update, I added new material from Kevin Cauley, Melvin Sapp, and myself, Travis Main.  The material is free for your use in evangelism.  It covers 12 different target groups and suggestions on how to approach them effectively through the method of visitation.

There are many ways you can visit today!

There are many ways you can visit today!

Visitation Manual

The ideal congregation is one in which all the members are working and contribut­ing to the planned program of scriptural activities. This is true because: (1) such work is essential to the individual’s fulfilling his mission as a Christian. (2) Such work contributes to the individual’s spiritual vitality; (3) Such a situation means that the Church is instrumental in saving souls, whether they be in God’s fami1y or yet outside. Whatever contributions the Church makes in the community of a social, cultural, or ever benevolent nature are wholly incidental to its concern for souls.

WE NEED TO MEET THE CHALLENGE MORE EFFICIENTLY.  The potential of most Church visitation programs is great. A good working force of Christians who want to work for the Lord can accomplish much.  Yet, they often need to be meeting this great chal­lenge with more efficiency and devotedness. There are weak and delinquent members of the congregation who need admonition, exhortation, or rebuke. There are a number of families of the Lord’s people represented who are wholly out of duty, not attending any­where, which we know about. And there are scores of non-members who have shown an interest in some way who need attention, to say nothing of the thousands who have never heard of real, New Testament Christianity.

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Effective Everyday Evangelism

Effective Everyday Evangelism

Below is a shameless plug of a book written by a good friend, preacher, and fellow article writer: Doug Dingley.  The information is pulled from a flyer for his book.  Having read his previous book “More than Conquerors” and greatly appreciating its message, I have no doubt that this latest endeavor will leave you spiritually awakened and ready to serve.  Check it out! – Travis Main

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Having been a member of the Lord’s church for any length of time, you have more than likely heard one of “those” comments: “Oh yeah, you’re the ones who think you’re the only ones going to heaven,” “You’re the folks who don’t believe in music,” or, “You believe in water/works salvation instead of salvation by grace through faith.”

Effective Everyday Evangelism

Effective Everyday Evangelism

I have been very blessed by God to recently have published: Effective Everyday Evangelism; the Adventures of Joe Clevelander & Chuck Churchman. It deals with how to faithfully, lovingly, biblically and effectively address such comments and questions – as well as the subject of homosexuality and the anti-biblical “Sinner’s Prayer for Salvation” amongst others – but how to do so on a simple, non-antagonistic, easy-to-understand level, utilizing everyday illustrations and examples from the world around us to help the biblically uninformed to better understand God’s truth. Heavily scripturally-referenced throughout and divided into 13 chapters with discussion questions at the end of each, plus, including an appendix of 7 very scriptural bible studies covering such things as God’s biblical plan of salvation and Christ’s one, New Testament, pre-denominational church, this book is ideal for either personal or congregational bible study, as well as to hand out to those you are seeking to see saved. Here’s what some others have said:

I loved the book! Not a one-trick pony, this book speaks volumes on evangelism but it does not stop there. Each chapter is filled with memorable stories that challenge the most seasoned Christian to fight the good fight, to love thy neighbor as thyself, and to always lean upon the word of God. But there is more. Thoroughly footnoted, this book is great for classroom discussion, personal study, or as an outreach tool. The depth of bible knowledge the writer possesses is clear throughout and always on point. This book is for the experienced preacher, new convert, and God seeker alike.

~Bear Valley Bible Institute Graduate & Gospel Preacher, Frederick Klein (See: www.southsidegr.org)

I have only known Brother Dingley for a relatively short amount of time, yet in that short time, he has demonstrated over and over his keen ability to thoroughly and yet simplistically open up the Scriptures. This gift is demonstrated once again in this book. As a preacher myself, I have witnessed the struggle people have teaching biblical principles in a way that is easy for everyone to understand. Brother Dingley has masterfully shown each of us simple ways to answer the most commonly asked questions regarding the Lord’s church. In fact, I found myself not just enjoying the delivery of the biblical answers but getting excited about getting this book into each of the members’ hands where I preach. I have no doubt that this book will be a great benefit to the kingdom of Christ and that God will be glorified even more by those that take to heart the valuable information presented in this fantastic writing.

~Brown Trail School of Preaching Graduate & Gospel Preacher, Landon Rowell

(See: www.gospel-preacher.com, & www.ramonacofc.com)

Check it out for yourself today at www.amazon.com/author/douglasdingley,

or order directly from www.jameskaypublishing.com!

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Costa Rica 2017

Below is a summary of our Costa Rica Mission Trip for 2017.  If your congregation aided in our trip financially or through prayers, please feel free to print this letter out and share our sincere appreciation with everyone.

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Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Our 2017 mission trip to Costa Rica was such a wonderful success!  We are providing this report to all of you were involved in praying for and/or supporting our last two years of Costa Rican work.  We want to keep you updated on how we worked to glorify God and how your aid did exactly that.

Bagaces Church of Christ

Last year, our evangelistic efforts were spent in the areas of Sarchi and Naranjo.  This year, our efforts were focused on the town of Bagaces.  Bagaces is located in northern Costa Rica.  Its population is around 21,000.  The congregation has a membership in the 20’s.  The preacher in Bagaces is Heiner Montealto.  He is a young man who has a wonderful work.  He is a graduate of the Brown Trail School of Preaching, writes for Churchofchristarticles.com, and is dedicated to teaching the truth.  The congregation of Bagaces is only about one year old.  The members there are a wide span of ages from young to old.  Our brothers and sisters there received us warmly and with exemplary hospitality.   The building they meet in is very humble, with residences attached on two sides.  30 people easily fill the building, but more on that later.

The View from Bagaces Costa Rica

While Bagaces isn’t a major tourist attraction, there are aspects of it that are very memorable to someone who may not have been to that part of the world.  Unlike our previous trip, this area presented some unique wild life.  We were able to take pictures of “love birds” (yes, the kind you find in pet shops).  They really were beautiful and let us know when we were too close to them by squawking loudly.  We also saw iguanas.  Not just a few, but many.  During the day, they spent their time lazing around in the trees.  Occasionally, they might even be spotted on the road.  We nearly ran over one… but he kicked up onto his rear legs and ran for all he was worth.  However, at night, we believe every iguana made its way to the roof or our hotel.  By morning, all we could hear was their skittering on the tin roof.  The most fascinating iguana we saw was in a tree behind the Bagaces Church building.  We estimate it wieghed around 50 lbs and measured more than three feet long.  Oddly enough, no one in Bagaces seemed to serve iguana at mealtime.  Very disappointing! The landscape of Bagaces was relatively flat to gentle slopes, perhaps similar to areas seen in Florida.  A wide variety of hardwood trees dotted the open fields.  The Guanacaste tree stands as the most spectacular as far as trees go.  Its width is what stands out.  The shade provided by these trees is immense.  Finally, of note as far as landscape and wildlife in the Bagaces area, there is a nice size waterfall just a few miles out of town.  Some of our team were able to visit it, but if you also want to see it, there are many pictures of it online.  Just look up “waterfall, Bagaces, Costa Rica”.

Hotel Living in Bagaces

Our hotel was small, but very clean.  The room Sterling and I shared did not have hot water.  Most of us did not have hot water, but others boasted of having some.  Fortunately, with mid-70 to 80-degree weather, cold showers were kind of nice.  The septic system of Bagaces is very weak.  Thus, everyone in town puts their waste tissue in baskets.  This took a little getting used to, though veterans of missionary work know we did not experience the worst of inconveniences.

Mealtime in Bagaces

Bagaces, like many Costa Rica towns is built with a Catholic place of worship on its center square.  It was here that we also found a bank, the largest supermarket (think Aldi), and a couple of café/restaurants.  Many meals were spent at the café on the square where we found fried eggs, omelettes, rice and beans, pastries, fruity breakfast drinks, and salchicon.  Salchichon is my new Costa Rican favorite.  Though some folks thought it was a combination of chicken and pork, salchichon is also made from horse.  I have it on good authority that the salchichon in Bagaces was indeed made from horse.  Whatever the ingredients, it was absolutely delicious and unlike any meat I have had in the States.

The Daily Schedule of Evangelism

Each morning, Sterling and I awoke around 6-6:30.  Speaking for myself, I would then go to the café to get coffee and study.  Sometimes, others from our team were there doing the same.  Around 7-7:30 the remainder of the team would arrive for breakfast.  By 8:30, we typically broke up and went to meet the congregation at their building.  The Bagaces Church of Christ worships about two blocks off of the main square in Bagaces.  By 9:00, the team was gathered to start a morning devotional and about 10-15 minutes later, the Costa Ricans were ready.  That is a bit of humor, but based in reality too.  Time is viewed a little more laxly in Costa Rica.  The morning devotional consisted of prayer, a few hymns, and a short lesson.  One morning Sterling provided a lesson on “Singing” and on one of the last days I gave a short lesson entitled “Are You Ready?”  After our devotional, we knocked doors or followed up on previous Bible Studies until 12:30-1:00 pm.  We then returned for lunch until around 2 pm.  Then again, we would go out from about 2:00-4:30 pm.  Most days, half the team would be late for meals due to ongoing Bible studies.  The dedication of this team was fantastic!   We spent5:00-7:00 eating dinner and prepping for evening Worship.  At the evening worship the congregation prayed, sang, and listened to a primary lesson brought by a member of the team from the United States.  I was honored to bring two lessons this year, “The doctrine of the Church” and “Descriptions of the Church”.

On the first evening about 35-40 people were present.  By the final two nights, we had 82 and 72 people present!  In total, there were 8 nights of meetings.  By midweek, 30-45 minutes before the meeting started, there was a lot of scrambling to go pick people up.  Many Costa Ricans walk or bike for travel.  Sterling was actually quite impacted by the number of people who did not have cars.  What is additionally impressive about the attendance each night of the meetings was that all of our evangelism was done outside of Bagaces in the country.  It is very likely that if our work had been done in the city, we would have outgrown the building.Actually, toward the end of the meeting, a number of people had to listen from another room or from outside.  Each night the meetings wrapped up between 8:30 and 9:00.  Afterward, we ran people home and dashed to find and open restaurant.  For the most part, Bagaces closes up after 9 pm.

 Evangelism Team Composition

Each team consisted of between 3-4 people.  Sterling, a member of the local congregation named Carlos (provided great contacts), our interpreter, friend, and outstanding student of the Word of God, Noel, and I went together as one team.  We cannot say enough about how much joy we have working with Noel.  Noel and I have similar mentalities and it feels natural when we evangelize together.  Ithas gotten to the point where we know the direction the other is going and that really helps.

Atmosphere for Evanglism

Speaking from our observation (I believe the experience may have been the same for the other groups), the thirst to hear the Word of God is very high in Bagaces.  Now… that is all prefaced with the fact that the majority of our work was in the countryside and not in the city.  It is quite likely there are some factors that affect the reception of the gospel between the two locations.  That aside, we found most of our studies ran between 1 1/2 – 3 hours in duration.  This means that most days, we would get only conduct 2-4 studies.  This is quite a departure from last year, where we conducted many shorter studies from 20 minutes to an hour and a half.  The Bible studies this time around were much more rewarding because we felt like we were able to get very deep into Biblical issues that were affecting those with whom we studied. Very few folks were not interested in discussing the gospel.  In fact, after the first 2 days, I cannot recall an instance where someone declined to study the Bible.

Approach to Evangelism

Our team’s approach to sharing the gospel was relatively simple. First, break the ice.  When you approach any person, do so with as minimal a menacing presence as possible.  The truth is, I am a bit taller than the average Costa Rican.  Noel is a bit broader than the average Costa Rican.  We both sport facial hair and neither of us are going to win an award for looking handsome.  Thus, we try to make certain we dress in clean fashion (button ups or polo shirts).  We smile.  We look for opportunities to relate or make brief small talk from the beginning.

Second, don’t immediately give up when someone says “no” or lets you know they are part of another religion.  The truth in Costa Rica and even in the United States, is that most people are either affiliated with or have experience with other religions.  This is actually an open door, not a closed door.  Much of the time we would ask about their beliefs or religious activity.  This is, in part, an ice breaker, an opportunity to discover spiritual needs, and an olive branch showing you are interested what they have to say, not just your agenda.

Third, if you have literature, invitations, etc. keep them in your bag until the end.  You want the attention of the person you are visiting with.  Many visits end quickly because paperwork is given at the beginning and the person you are visiting sees it as a good time to say, “thanks I will read these later, have a nice day”.

Fourth, if the individual with whom you are talking is interested in certain topics, follow that lead.  If not, begin by asking if they have read about the Church of Christ in the Bible.  This is a great time to start with Matthew 16:18, Romans, 16:16, Acts 2… etc.  If you don’t think this is a good starting point, another good place to start is Matthew 28:18-20.  In this passage you have the authority of Christ, teaching all nations, and baptism.  When you start with the authority of Christ and the authority of scripture (2 timothy 3:16-17, Jude 3, James 1:21), you are on a good track.  Most of our studies did not end in an immediate conversion, however, all of the studies focused on scripture. We heard many times that we were the only people to come to the home and not share our words, but only those of the scriptures.  Everything we said was taken from the Word of God and those in the study were impressed with that.  Evangelism isn’t about the words of the minister; it is about the Word of God.

 

Women of the Team

Most of the Bible studies we conducted were with women.  While we were able to make this a comfortable process, the reality is that a woman who comes along with the team can increase the comfort level.  I believe the ideal evangelism team is 2–3 people.  A second person, male or female, will always help think of things you cannot remember or did consider.  A woman as part of the team allows for a less menacing interaction and provides some additional benefits often not considered.  A woman in the team helps better relate to another woman.  She will be far more comfortable sitting next to a female subject aiding her in finding Bible passages and even reading with her.  A woman can also be very helpful when there are children about.  On more than one occasion, the female members of our teams have sat with the children, sang songs, or shared Biblical history while the others engaged in a Bible study with the adults.  A woman can be a very valuable part of a team of evangelists.  Having a female contact may even result in future Bible studies between the women without the men present.

 

Limited knowledge of Spanish?

Sterling is 17 years old.  His presence last year was one of learning and discovering the opportunity of missionary work.  Though he also presented a devotional last year, his presence was largely observational.  This year, Sterling not only provided a devotional lesson, he led singing a number of times in the congregational worship.  Additionally, his scriptural knowledge was helpful in Bible Study. At nearly every Bible study we referred to Acts 2.  Generally, when we study with someone, Noel will begin in Spanish or I will speak and Noel interpreted.  As the study progresses, went back and forth in that manner.  There were even times when I was able to teach in Spanish only.  Sterling taught by giving an overview of Acts 2.  This would, of course, set up an examination of Acts 2:37-38 and 47.  Sterling does not speak Spanish, but he was very helpful in sharing the Word.  If you are considering missionary work, you can have a role, even if you do not speak Spanish fluently, awkwardly, or at all – Remember there is an interpreter!  Additionally, many people in and around Bagaces do not read well.  This provides a great missionary opportunity.  Though I am not able to speak Spanish fluently, I was able to read Spanish better than many of those with whom we studied.  If you can learn to read Spanish properly and you know your Bible, the scriptures themselves can speak the all the Spanish you need save a soul.

 

Sharing the Gospel

Overall, we had a team of 12 who came from the United States to share the Gospel with Bagaces: Three women and nine men.  Our team conducted 94 Bible studies and we were fortunate enough to see six new births into Christ.  Our team offered only the gospel.  Those being baptized did not expect financial assistance or gifts.  When they were baptized, it was because we spent a significant amount of time sharing the gospel of Christ with them.  The reality of this is: even when we had people come forward during our invitations, we did not immediately baptize them.  In some cases, they were not baptized at all.  Our concern was not to report large numbers of people being put into water, but the fact, that with the assistance of brothers and sisters from the states, the Gospel truth was spread in earnest and the seed of the Word of God was planted in many hearts.  The trip was not a vacation nor a site-seeing event.  It was not spent engaging in benevolent activities.  The trip was completely evangelistic and focused on sharing spiritual food with the people of Bagaces and strengthening our brothers and sisters there.  When baptisms occurred, we encouraged the local brothers to perform them.  It was not our desire to have baptism selfies.  Our efforts as an evangelist team focused on the importance of the work of evangelism.

Costa Rica 2018

This next year, our plan is to return to Costa Rica.  We plan to return to Bagaces.  There is much work to be done there.  The congregation has purchased land to build a place of worship outside of town.  They are growing with their own funds and the fruit of their own labor.  There is much to be optimistic about in Bagaces.  Sterling will likely not be going as he plans to attend either the Memphis School of Preaching or the Southwest School of Bible Studies next year (That decision will be made in February).  My wife who has some past experience speaking Spanish (now very rusty) will likely join the team and provide an additional asset to the work.  Next year will definitely bring changes and challenges.  However, I look forward to it with great anticipation.  Sterling and I are grateful for all the brothers and sisters who have supported us (in many ways) in sharing the gospel with Costa Rica and welcome any future aid you may be able to provide spiritually or financially.

God Bless,

Travis and Sterling Main

 

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A Gospel Life in Hourglass Time

A Gospel Life in Hourglass Time

Making tents consumes time.  The apostle Paul, amidst the sharing of the most important message mankind has ever heard or ever will hear, made tents (Ac. 18:3).  As time has gone by, it appears to me the number of tent making preachers is increasing.  Of course, the reference here is to the practice of additional work and responsibility beyond that of sharing the gospel.  Most preachers want to fill their lives with nothing but the gospel; yet, a plethora of life’s obstacles often get in the way.

What a dream to hold on to each grain in the sands of time.

What a dream to hold on to each grain in the sands of time.

This desire is not exclusive to preachers.  Christians as a whole envision a life where they are one, large, harmonious, ever increasing family of believers who are bringing the lost to Christ in droves.  The reality is different. After an 8 to 13 hour day of work, running errands, hauling kids around, home repairs, grocery shopping, laundry, meal preparation, etc., the first thing on the mind is a moment of relaxation or hours of sleep.  It seems impossible to focus long enough to keep the family from struggling let alone find the time to fit in God, Christian brothers and sisters, and the rest of the world.  Who even has a moment read a brotherhood article?  Desperation, resignation, and guilt seem to be riding hand in hand as the days grow shorter.  You want change, but how?

Jesus once spoke to his disciples about the response of normal folks to the spreading of the Word of the Kingdom.  He compared it to an individual spreading seed.  The seed fell in many places and one of those places was among the thorns.  Here is what Jesus said in regard to that:  “As for what was sown among thorns, this is the one who hears the Word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the Word, and it proves unfruitful.” (Mt. 13:22)  This is how many of us often feel.  We hear the Word, believe it, and want to act on it.  Yet, all the activities of the world seem to choke us out.  Perhaps as Felix we are always looking for that right opportunity or convenient time (Ac. 24:25), but it never seems to come.  It is as if we are the puppy that runs round and round and never catches his tail.

Knowing your unique situation is impossible for me.  My sympathies go out to you.  The words above describe my life in many ways.  Though I may not have the perfect solution to your life dilemmas, perhaps the suggestions I am about to share will enable you and ultimately those around you to draw closer to spiritual peace.  The dilemma really breaks itself down to two components:  when and how.

When?  Finding time is critical.  You could work faster to buy more time but as a practical matter that isn’t going to last. The truth is you will just spend the same amount of time working, only at an increased speed, and end up even more tired in the end.  The ultimate solution is prioritization, organization, and realization.

When a person looks at their day and sees they do not have time for everything, prioritization is a must.  Something has to go.  Most evenings last summer, I spent the day thinking that when my wife arrived home from work we would go kayaking.  We ended up going kayaking only two or three times.  Predominantly, we simply had to cut it out of the schedule.  It was not high on the priority list.

Here are some common things you might have on your list that could perhaps be cut out or shortened:  internet time (including smart phone, tablet, and texting), television time, and phone time.  What did we do before the days of electronics?  How did people function?  We carry our electronic devices everywhere we go.  Put them down and step away.  If you ever had time to research the biggest time wasters in the life of man, you would find much of it has to do with electronics.

Understand also that not everything is really that important.  Martha missed the important things while Mary did not (Lk. 10:38-42).  Can you find more time if you choose to put aside listening to talk radio, not read that secular magazine or book, dust or vacuum a little less often, or make a simple meal instead of “something special”?  Ask yourself:  Is spending time on this item really all that critical at the moment?

Concerning organization, remember that the more organized a person is, the more time they have.  Do you spend all day Saturday working on laundry?  Consider doing a load a day instead.  Are you running back and forth to town to run errands?  Plan out your day to where you can combine tasks and make one trip instead of three.  Are you checking Facebook all day long?  Cat videos, selfies, and one-line quotes may be funny, but they are time stealers.  Get organized!  Confine your Snapchat, Instagram, e-mail, and sports updates to once in the morning and once at night.

Do you spend a lot of time in the car each day?  Are you using this time for something other than daydreaming?  You can!  Organize this time to do something helpful or productive!  When you make meals, do you cook enough to cover future meals…or do you have to start from scratch every time?  Save time with organization!  Do your tasks require concentration?  One of the biggest mistakes I make is trying to study when everyone is running around the house.  Organize that schedule!  Choosing the right hours for the right tasks is critical.  Organizing your day will buy you time.

In the topic of finding time, what on earth is “realization”?  In this case, realization is short for realizing you cannot do everything by yourself.  Ask for help.  Solomon established that we do better with help (Ec. 4:9-12).  Family, friends, and even hired help can buy us a little more time each day.  I am naturally an introvert.  I like to do things by myself without others around.  However, this isn’t beneficial to my spirituality or my proper use of time.

Don’t let pride get in the way either.  It’s okay to admit we cannot do it all.  Again, ask for help!  You may just find that accomplishing a task side by side with someone will have the side effect of developing closeness too!  More on that in a moment.

Prioritization, organization, realization.  Simple solutions for finding time.  The more time you have at your disposal, the more you can focus on drawing close to God and others.  Now I want to provide some direction as to how we draw close to others with the time that we have.

How?  My father or mother once told me, “If you want to have a friend, you must be a friend.”  From this simple piece of advice, I suggest three points for drawing closer to others:  seek others out, communicate with them, and serve their needs.  These points apply not just to earthly relationships, but to spiritual ones also.

If your objective is to draw closer to others, whether they be brothers or sisters in Christ or those who do not yet know Christ, then you most often must take the time to seek them out first.  Jesus Himself came seeking (Lk. 19:10).  If there is anything I have learned in this world, it is that we all have issues.  Insecurities, selfishness, and feeling like we have no time are problems with which most people struggle.  Consequently, folks just don’t dive right into getting to know you.  Frequently, you have to take the first step, and then another, and then another toward reaching out to someone.  Relationships aren’t “I did this, now it’s your turn.”  If either you or your spouse didn’t make the first move, it is likely you wouldn’t be married.  A Christian gentleman once expressed to me that the building where we assembled to worship had a sign on it letting people know where we were, so it was up to them to show up.  Sadly, there are a lot of near-empty buildings where people aren’t seeking and are just waiting for someone to show up.  Get out there!  Go Ye!  If they are busy working, help them out!  Spending the time will create bonds whether in work, play, conversation, or study.

“Draw nigh to God and he will draw nigh to you.  Cleanse YOUR hands, YE sinners; and purify YOUR hearts, YE double-minded” (Ja. 4:8).  Yes, the ball is in your court when wanting to get closer to God.  We cannot see God, but He has promised we will find Him if we seek Him (Mt. 7:7).  Man has what we need before us to get to know God (2 Ti. 2:15; 3:16-17; 2 Pe. 1:1-3).  It takes effort and even change on our part to truly draw close to Him.  Perhaps the time we save by prioritization, organization, and realization can be filled with coming to know Him.  Perhaps that commute can be spent listening to His Word.  Perhaps the little things can be put aside to sit at His feet.  He is not so far we cannot find if we seek (Ac. 17:26-28).

Communication is difficult.  My daughter is like me in a lot of ways.  She is introverted, which means she would rather you did the talking so she can listen. Over the years, I have learned how to start, maintain, and yes, at times dominate a conversation.  Yet, my daughter is at that point in her life when communication is very hard.  What do you say beyond “Hello”?  This will be expanded upon in a moment when discussing serving others, but for now consider what you have to communicate.

You have information that will change another person’s life eternally.  You have something important to say.  Second, you have family, you have been places, you have seen things, you have experiences, you have commonalities with others which you can share.  Once you let others know you are just a normal friendly person, you are likely to get communication in return.  It’s that conversation which enables a closer relationship.

Communication is also important if you want to draw closer to God.  Prayer is something we must not overlook in our life (1 Th. 5:17).  God wants to hear our cries for help, our concerns, and our thanksgiving.  Could that quiet time right in the morning when we get up, or perhaps before we go to bed, be shared with Him?  He has shared His mind in scripture.  He has expressed His love toward us.  Can we communicate that in return?

All good relationships require both sides be willing to serve the other.  It took my wife and me years to realize that happiness in marriage wasn’t about having our own needs met, but being able to meet the needs of our partner.  Jesus Himself provided the biggest example of love and closeness by sacrifice.  It is the Golden Rule!  Love others as thyself! (Mt. 22:39)  Service and kindness to others is what Jesus communicated to His disciples when He washed their feet (Jn. 13).

When we communicate with others, the conversation isn’t just about us.  The conversation involves us serving the needs of the other person by enabling them to share aspects of their lives.  It means us listening so we can hear about their hopes, concerns, and encouragements.  Quite frequently, there is nothing someone likes to do more than talk about themselves!  Yet, that too can be therapeutic.  Such interactions draw us closer.  The simplest of conversations can build into much deeper matters.

How do we show love for our Savior?  We serve!  We keep His commandments (Jn. 14:15).  His ways are higher and deeper than our ways, so we serve to draw closer so that we can be more like Him.  The more we know Him and act like Him, the stronger that bond becomes.  The apostle Paul described his own actions as a servant of others:  “For though I be free from all men, yet have I made myself servant unto all, that I might gain the more” (1 Co. 9:19).  As mentioned previously, when we spend time with others we build bonds.  Everyone on earth needs help in some way.  Service can be provided to young or old, in big and little ways.  As you serve others, you will find opportunities to better serve God by glorifying Him through good works.

Our life and time are not our own.  They are gifts given by God.  We can show ourselves to be good stewards of what God has given us, or we can simply ignore what has been given (Mt. 25:14-30).  God desires we use our time wisely (Ep. 5:15-17).  This means we must prioritize, organize, and realize.  When we do this, we will find time to further devote to getting closer to God, our brothers and sisters in Christ, and those of this world.

Yes, this requires effort on our part.  We must seek the closeness of others.  We must communicate with others.  We must engage ourselves in the service of others.  These suggestions for redeeming the time and making the most of it are simply stated.  Putting them into action requires concentrated effort.  We don’t need to worry, for we can do this when our service is focused upon Christ (Ph. 4:13).  I pray we all may achieve the closeness we are seeking.

[I first published this article in the Carolina Messenger under the title “Growing Closer to God and Each Other”] – Travis

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Log Cabin Lesson

Log Cabin Lesson

In Wyoming, a number of homes were log cabins.  Naturally, my mind set itself to having one.  Folks gave me varying accounts of the good and bad of cabin living.  When we moved to Ohio, we purchased a property with a log cabin on it already.  God had blessed my family not only with a dream realized, but a lesson to learn in the process.

There are lessons to learn everywhere...

There are lessons to learn everywhere…

My cabin had an insect issue.  I sprayed for bugs to the best of my knowledge and then called in some folks who claimed to be exterminators.  They came to the property with clip boards and a sign on their truck to substantiate their claim of being exterminators.  When the finished their inspection, they told me I had carpenter ants.  They also told me to put traps up everywhere because they were certain I had mice, though they found no sign.  They then informed me they would return in a week to rid the cabin of the ants.

Right away I put out traps for mice in my cabin (12 of them).  In a week’s time, I did not catch a single mouse.  I also contacted a second exterminator.  They too arrived with clip boards, uniforms, and a vehicle with a sign.  This group of exterminators was far more thorough.  They demonstrated where the other exterminators were mistaken with their claims.  I did not have carpenter ants… I had boring beetles.  Not only were their claims accurate, but they matched the evidence presented in the cabin (no mention of mice either).

There is a Biblical lesson to be learned in my beetled cabin.  Despite a supposed expert’s claim of truth, his appearance, or his credentials, truth should always be verified.  There are many false teachers out there who make statements that will not stand the test of the trial of scripture which is truth.

 John 17:17 – Sanctify them in the truth: thy word is truth.

 The Bereans strove to examine the veracity of Paul’s teachings:

Acts 17:11 – Now these were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of the mind, examining the Scriptures daily, whether these things were so.

John warns Christians to “try the spirits” (False teachers) to see if they are proclaiming truth or not.

I John 4:1 – Beloved, believe not every spirit, but prove the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets are gone out into the world.

For certain, as my cabin would have suffered destruction by being treated improperly, man will suffer destruction for dealing with his spiritual pests improperly.

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