Bride and Groom Seperation of March 1

They were so much in love on their wedding day. There was no question about how much he loved her, and she vowed her unending love to him. It was one of those perfect days which no one could ever forget. But so much has happened and now it looks like there may be a separation in the next few days.

They had so much in common in the beginning. They shared the same goals and they rejoiced as they saw their dreams become a reality. They worked side by side and accomplished so much. It just doesn’t seem to be that way anymore.

The reality is that the fault lies entirely with the bride. In most relationships there are problems and the blame can be shared, but such is not true in this situation. She changed and he has made every effort to help, but it is all to no avail. It’s not that he would not restore the relationship—he still longs for that which once existed—but she simply is not willing.

She has other interests. She had time for him in the past, but now spends less and less time with him. Those things they once did together are now a thing of the past. She’s just too occupied for him.

There was one week each year they spent together that brought them so much joy. It was the highlight of the year for both of them. They made plans and committed to each other to make that week the most special time in their relationship. They made time for each other and nothing was more important than this week together. It was the time for the achievement of their greatest goal and brought them their greatest joy.

It doesn’t have be this way. If the bride would only remember the vow she made (he has never forgotten his, and determine she would change, it would be just like it used to be. No held grudges, no bad memories, just that perfect relationship they once shared. However, it is up to her. She holds the future in her hands.

That special week begins on March 1, and it will be immediately obvious where her love, devotion and commitment are. If you want to know what is so important about the week beginning on March 1, just check the front page of this bulletin. If you want to know the identity of the bride, just look in the mirror. It is not a great mystery, but “I speak concerning Christ and the church” (Eph. 5:32). Let’s work to make that week as special to us as it is to Him. Let’s share His dream with Him! The future is in our hands!

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Man Becomes a 7th-Day Adventist by Reading the Book of Mormon!

We have been so blessed by hearing Glenn Colley this week. He has made everyone who has heard him think! The title of this article is not mine; it comes from a powerful point he made in his lesson on Sunday morning. By the way, if you want to hear that lesson, it is available on our website—you need to hear it!

It is amazing how the most profound truth becomes so obvious with the simplest statement. Think for just a moment! When you read the title of this article, what was your reaction? Do you really think one would ever become an Adventist (or any other denominational title) by reading the Book of Mormon? Has there ever been even one occasion where anyone ever became a Mormon without this book being part of his teaching? The truth is that it takes more than the Bible to make one a Mormon.

Now if that is true, would one ever become a Seventh-Day Adventist without being taught by another Adventist or reading literature published by them? In order to become an Adventist, the writings of Ellen G. White must be taught. Think about it! It takes more than the Bible to make one a Seventh-Day Adventist.

I once asked a Jehovah’s Witness the following, “If I just read the Bible for the entirety of my life, would I ever become a Jehovah’s Witness?” His answer was amazing. “The odds against it happening are one-in-a-million.” He missed the odds—it would never happen—but what an admission about what it takes for one to become a Witness. If you just had the Bible, you would never arrive at the teachings of the Witnesses!

Now apply that to all religions. What  influences must there be in one’s life to be a Catholic? A Methodist? A Christian Scientist? A Seventh-Day Baptist (yes, they do exist right here in this county)? An Episcopal? A Baptist? A Presbyterian? Any denominationalist?

Now think of the following. What would one become if he just read the Bible? What would govern his morality? What would he believe about worship? What would he teach his neighbors? What religious name would he wear? What would he call the church?

You know, when it all began, all those early Christians had was the teaching of the apostles and prophets, and there were no denominations. Now since we have those same teachings, wonder what would happen if we just read the Bible alone! Think about it!

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What Can We Do When Faced with Monumental Decisions?

The task lying before him was overwhelming. His master, Abraham, had given him total authority in the finding of a bride for Isaac. He swore to the patriarch that he would not seek a wife from among the Canaanites but would find one among Abraham’s relatives in Mesopotamia. He promised that under no circumstances would he take Isaac back to Chaldea, for Isaac was to inherit the land God had promised Abraham and his descendants.

It likely took several days, even weeks, before the unnamed servant reached his destination. One can only imagine what thoughts he had as he traveled.  But when he arrived in Mesopotamia, he prayed fervently that God would give him success and thereby show kindness to Abraham.

God answered his prayer in a most remarkable way. Even before he finished praying, the future bride was standing beside him. As it became apparent that God had heard him and he learned that indeed Rebekah  was from Abraham’s family, “the man bowed down his head and worshiped the LORD” (Gen. 24:26). He was so thankful that God’s mercy had been shown to him.

When he met Laban, Rebekah’s father, he told him of the prayer he had offered to God and that God had answered it. As Laban heard this, he saw that God was part of the events and gave his consent for the marriage to take place. “When Abraham’s servant heard their words… he worshiped the LORD, bowing himself to the earth” (Gen. 24:52).

There is more to the story (read Genesis chapter 24), but think of the following lessons we can learn from this one event.

(1) Prayer should be a vital part of the selection of the person anyone is dating or contemplating marrying.

(2) Prayer should precede every major decision we make. When faced with crisis, pray!

(3) Prayer is heard in heaven and God answers.

(4) Prayer that is answered should be followed by a prayer of thanksgiving that God has heard us.

(5) Prayer, while not designed to be heard by others or said to impress them, should not be hidden. Don’t be afraid to pray publicly because of what others might think.

(6) Prayer shaped the destiny of Abraham’s family and it affects the destiny of yours.

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And He Wants Me to Be Honest

It sure sounded good. I’m talking about the inheritance letter I received from a lawyer (Peter Greenwood from Eastcote, London, England), which began, “I am the legal representative to the late J. Jenkins, an American national who herein shall be referred to as my late client.”

Now let’s see, my father was J. Jenkins and before him was my grandfather who was J. Jenkins. (In fact, I just counted and I immediately came up with seven J. Jenkins related to me).  I was somewhat disillusioned when I learned of the death of J. Jenkins in March 2006—I hadn’t heard about it, but who keeps up with all their relatives!

The letter told me that the “late J. Jenkins” had left an estate of $7,500,000 and Mr. Greenwood wanted to help me get the money. What a great guy! I’m not sure how he decided that he should contact me, seeing that there are 236,264 other Jenkinses in the U.S. and 52,608 in Great Britain, but this certainly seemed to be my lucky day.  Mr. Greenwood then wrote, “I want you to consider this proposal. If you grant your consent that I present you to the bank as the next-of-kin and beneficiary of my deceased client since you share the same surname as my late client . . .” What a gracious lawyer. He certainly seems to so interested in helping me. The rest of the sentence added,  “then we can share the entire proceeds on a mutually agreed-upon percentage.” I just can’t imagine why lawyers have such a bad reputation!

What followed was the most amazing part of the letter, “All I require is your honest cooperation to enable us to see this transaction through.” Honest cooperation!!! The letter reeks of a scam and he wants me to be honest! What a commentary on all that is in this world!

So many Bible verses come to mind. “Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses. . . . Provide things honest in the sight of all men . . .  Therefore, putting away lying. Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor . . . For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil . . .” (Luke 12:15; Rom. 12:17; Eph. 4:25; 1 Tim. 6:1). The verse which seems to be most fitting is Rev. 21:8, “. . . all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Truly, there is no honor among thieves!

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Abusing His Bride

I thought I had heard of everything imaginable, but I doubt I would have ever thought of this. It seems that some mega-churches are offering free infant and toddler care during services and couples are taking advantage of this.  On Sunday mornings they drop their children off at the appropriate place, then leave the building and go to a coffee shop. After their “date” they return and pick up the kids. Now what’s wrong with this picture?

The truth is that since the church began there were those who have used the church. Those Pharisees, who would do anything to convert one Gentile, “joined” the church hoping to use it as a means of accomplishing their purpose. John says of them, “They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us” (1 John 2:19). They were part of the church only for as long as it would accomplish their purpose.

Over the years I have seen so many examples of this same attitude. What about those “born again” politicians who claimed a relationship with Christ, at least until they were elected. Then there are those who have seen the church as an avenue for business contacts—insurance agents, car salesmen, Amway and Tupperware or other home parties promoters—who used the church and, when there were no more contacts, just drifted away.

Who has not been upset by those who used the church just so they could be given a wedding or baby shower? Knowing there is an upcoming marriage or the arrival of a new baby they become so regular in attendance until after the shower is given because of the kindness of ladies in the church. Then after the big event, they seemingly lose interest.

How about those who use the church for counseling in troubled times? When their marriages are struggling or they are having problems with a child, they rush to the church to get spiritual help, but once they receive it their interest dwindles. The same is true of those who use the church when in hospitals, during financial crisis, when needing food or during the aftermath of a hurricane.

So before we get too amazed about those who see the church as free babysitters during a Sunday morning date, think about all the other ways people have used the church.

Here’s something to think about. Wonder how the Lord feels about those who abuse His bride!

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