Conflict?  Enter the Battle Time?

Conflict?  Enter the Battle Time?

I do not like conflict.  I don’t like it in my family life, community life, or Church life.  It seems as if some people thrive in conflict.  I am not one of those.  I do not like the damage that conflict often brings.  It is not as if all conflict is bad though.  Conflict with self-control and where the involved parties are seeking the best for all is highly beneficial.  It just seems that this type of interaction just isn’t common anymore.  Individuals today seem to be hyper-sensitive to any criticism or differing opinion or teaching.  They lash out aggressively as if every instance were a battle to be won.  Insults, slander, and personal harm seem to be the rule of the game.  The conflicts seem as if they are a contest of who can flex their muscles the most and show they are the bigger man! This is done even if it means lying or abusing power.  The end result is anger, hurt, division, and broken relationships.  Christians, we are better people than this.Do you have the strength to promote peace?

Due to my dislike of conflict, over the last 5 or 6 years I have attempted to alter my responses to minimize damage upon individuals and the church.  When I say alter, often I have said little or nothing, when inside I felt like much needed to be said.  I have chosen the tactic to try and listen and learn and not be pulled into conflict.  Unfortunately, not battling the way others would like, seems to cause them to feel as if they have license to belittle and insult without constraint.  Even when choosing an environment such as email, where the medium provides opportunity for more thoughtfulness instead of rash thought and abrasiveness, it has been my experience that others can be domineering, unkind, and fail to listen.

A good Christian brother of mine who has preached for many decades once told me it is beneficial to leave a church rather than fight a battle and cause division.  This means even when you have truth on your side, evidence of wrongdoing, even witnesses, that for the good of the Bride of Christ you calmly and lovingly walk away.  I am not saying that he is wrong.  It is quite possible there are instances where this is acceptable or even best.  Perhaps in scenarios where the brethren have hardened their hearts to sin and unkindness?  Maybe in situations where ears are refusing to listen and feet are braced?  We could call this dusting our feet off in a “pearls before swine” environment.  It is quite likely that in an atmosphere such as this, further engagement would only fan the flames rather than cultivate godliness.  However, the question that continues flashing in my mind is, “What if they would stop and listen for a moment?”.

The Church and Christian brothers and sisters are at their finest when they are examining things to see if they are so (Acts 17:11).  Open hearts seeking truth in love should be the goal of every conflict.  When iron sharpens iron, when Christians challenge each other to be better and to know truth, our light can truly shine.  Additionally, when we walk away from exposing sin, selfish ambitions, unauthorized behaviors, cruelty to other brethren, and manipulation, I am concerned that we will be held accountable for failing to act (James 4:17).  Our light cannot shine if we never uncover it.  Paul speaks of sharing the truth despite pressing conflict in I Thessalonians 2:2.   In fact, we could examine the bulk of his ministry, it was done with the constant contention of Judaizers seeking to harm him and hinder his ministry.  What happens to those who are earnest in a congregation who have been left behind?  Will they fall victim to unauthorized practices, false teaching, or the hand of a man or group acting as Diotrephes?

Friends, I wish I knew when the time to engage or yield was in every instance.  There are many examples of conflict in scripture, some ending well, others not.  I do know that we have a Lord who died for us so that we would not behavior in a worldly manner.  Let us examine ourselves often to see how we stand (2 Corinthians 13:5). People who are walking in the light do not need to be ashamed, but we must be vigilant that we do not stray from this behavior.  People walking in the light should not fear others, but be bold to share the truth.  Be patient and longsuffering when you can.  Be kind and considerate in your dealings with all.  Approach conflict with the spotless bride of Christ in mind.  Be prepared to battle if needed, but seek peace where possible.  Meekness is a blessed quality, and avoiding vain, destructive conflict is wise.  However, if you engage in conflict, I pray it is fruitful and godly.  Control the tongue, reign in the temper, and keep your eyes on Christ.

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Authority and Unity

Authority and Unity

“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ: That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive” (Ephesians 4:11-14).authority of the scriptures

The authority of the scriptures must be primal as we seek to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.  All authority comes from Christ (Matthew 28:18).  Christ has given apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers for the church to remain united under His authority.  The roles of apostle and prophet produce the authoritative scriptures.  The roles of pastors and teachers hold us accountable to the scriptures.  Evangelists bring others to the scriptures.  With these roles fulfilled, we have unity with one another in the body of Christ.

However, when we dismiss the authority of the scripture, we bring disunity and division to the body of Christ because we will no longer have one standard by which to determine what is right or wrong.  We will be children tossed and carried by every wind of teaching.  We will be prey for the sleight and craftiness of men, and we will succumb to their deceit.  What happens when we dismiss the authority of the scriptures?  We lose our anchor to Christ and His church.  May we respect the authority of the scriptures.  God bless you, and I love you.

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Profound and Eternal Truths

Profound and Eternal Truths

One of the marks of the inspiration of the Bible is how such profound and eternal truths can be stated in such simple terms. This is not to say that it does not contain teachings that are like milk and other teachings like meat (Heb. 5:12-14), but God has made truth so that even one who has limited education can understand deep truth in simple words. Consider the following truth contained in just four words.

God

The opening verses of the Bible set the tone for all that follows. “In the beginning God…” How can one look at the world around us without seeing that it was not caused by a massive, randomly uncontrolled explosion? “The heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament shows His handiwork” (Psa. 19:1). There is an intricate design to the universe, and its origin, and ours, is found in one word—God.eternal truths

God Loves

Every attribute of God is infinite. There are no limits to measure the height, depth or width of any of them. His very nature is to love His creation. His care is seen in the feeding of every bird and the glorious beauty given to every flower. Do you want to see His love? Then do what Emmanuel said when He was on the earth, “Look at the birds in the air…your Father feeds them” (Matt. 6:26). His love is seen in the showers which water the earth and in light and warmth of our sun. “For He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust” (Matt. 5:45). He shows His love every day to even those who curse Him. God loves!

God Loves You

So many are ridden with guilt about the mistakes and blunders they have made. They feel that they have done so much wrong that God has no place for them. Think again about those words about the sun and rain. They come equally on the just and the unjust. After Jesus told us to look at how God feeds the birds, He asks, “Are you not of more value than they?” You may not see your value because of all of your mistakes, but He still does! Remember His prayer about forgiveness for those who were crucifying Him, yet He still loved them! In spite of all we have done in the past, He still loves us and gave His son to prove it!

God Loves You Always

Finally, remember that His love is unchanging. Think of the worst day you every lived and know He still loved you at the end of that day. Find the joy that awaits you today when you remember that “…nothing shall be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ” (Rom. 8:39). Remember these four simple words about eternal truth: God loves you always.

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Vengeance: Avenge Not Yourselves

Vengeance: Avenge Not Yourselves

The greatest test of a Christian within the New Testament is how he treats his enemies. When we are wronged, we lash out in response to “defend” ourselves.  We demand what is “equitable” in relationship to the harm that has been done to us.  Vengeance is that demanding attitude that what was done to me ought to also be done to my enemy.  Christians are directed not to harbor such thoughts in their sanctified minds.  vengeance

Romans 12:19-21 says, “Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.  Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.  Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.”  Peter wrote, “For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps: Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth: Who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously” (1 Peter 2:21-23).

When pursued by our enemies, how do we respond?  Do we avenge or “give place unto wrath?”  Do we revile or revile not?  Do we threaten or threaten not?  Do render our own verdict, or commit ourselves to the righteous judge?  Do overcome evil with evil or do we overcome evil with good?  Our enemies deserve our mercy and love because we were once God’s enemy and that is how God looked upon us.  To treat them otherwise, is to invite the same judgment that we mete out upon them upon ourselves (Matthew 7:1).

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Death by Suicide

Death by Suicide

“Suicide is defined as death caused by self-directed injurious behavior with intent to die as a result of the behavior.”  From the CDC, the statistics of death by suicide (2020) in the United States can be seen:

  • Suicide was the 12th leading cause of death overall in the United States…
  • Suicide was the 2nd leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 10-14 and 25-34 , the third leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 15-24, and the fourth leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 35 and 44.
  • There were nearly two times as many suicides (45,979) in the United States as there were homicides (24,576).

The numbers regarding this topic are horrifying.  The reality behind them is far worse.  Husbands and wives, widowed.  Fathers and mothers, heart broken and shell shocked.  Families weeping over their loss.  Children alone or left with only a single parent.  While communities attempt to do their best to pick up the pieces, the wounds left upon the living from those who commit death by suicide often persist for a lifetime.

God created life in His image (Genesis 1:26).  He created mankind desiring that they be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28).  His direction to mankind is that they be kind, loving, comforting, and walk in a righteous manner serving one another.  He called upon mankind to avoid that which was not good.  His desire was that the union between man and woman that He created would create godly offspring (Malachi 2:15).  To be godly, one works to mold oneself in the image of the creator which I John 4:8 defines as “love” itself.

What leads most individuals to suicide is a lack of loving righteousness.  The individual suffers at the hand of that which is not godly.  They are introduced to that which harms their physical person and their soul.  Mental and physical abuse, mind altering substances, violence, teachings causing the individual to rely upon the judgment of mankind rather than God, jealousy, selfishness, immorality, greed, self-loathing, and a countless parade of influences introduced by the world create chaos within the mind and life of the individual.  The sources are wide ranging, but all have a commonality – ungodly influence – which causes damage to all who encounter it.

As a final thought regarding death by suicide, consider the religious body that you attend.  Are the individual members causing pain and suffering upon one another or are they working together to strengthen and build up? (I Corinthians 12:12-27)  Many congregations today have figuratively slit their wrists and are slowly bleeding to death.  Their actions are those of suicide.  They show up to appointed times, but their actions are political, backbiting, selfish, jealous, uncaring, unsupportive, unloving, and ungodly.  Rather than support one another and give life to other congregations trying to serve God, they demean one another and become a hindrance to righteousness.  Their time is spent fighting and being divisive within the expressed brotherhood of saints, rather than doing good to the household of faith.  If those claiming Christ are engaged in this behavior, they will only find destruction.  Let each one of us honestly examine ourselves, work to strengthen that which remains, and then reach out to the world with a proper shine of a chosen people.  Let us be a people who desire to be fruitful and see godly offspring born into Christ.  If the many do not turn from their ways, their death can only be attributed to their own “self-directed injurious behavior”.

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