Kindness? Always?

When People Mistreat You

I could quote the verse long before I really felt the impact God intended for it to have in my life. It was several years ago, when we lived in Birmingham, that one of my children’s Bible classes was memorizing short phrases from the Bible. The teacher asked for my help and I readily responded. Decades have passed, but I distinctly remember those six words of Paul and the impact they had on me. What were those words? “Be ye kind one to another” (Eph. 4:32).

remember kindness

Remember kindness!

The Bible demands kindness. We are told to be kindly affectionate to each other (Rom. 12:21); to be kind and forgiving (Eph. 4:32); to put on kindness (Col. 3:12) and to give all diligence in adding kindness to our faith (2 Pet. 1:5-7).

The Bible illustrates kindness. The lives of those saints of old show what kindness is, and we are amazed as we read about them. Joseph was kind to his brothers who sold him as a slave (Gen. 50:21); Moses was kind to the seven daughters of Reuel who were mistreated by the evil shepherds; David was kind to the crippled grandson of evil King Saul (2 Sam. 9); and the good Samaritan was kind to that stranger, beaten and bleeding, whom he saw beside the road. As we read these stories, we are amazed at how differently these saints reacted from the way we would have reacted!

It is so easy to be kind to some people. When people show kindness to us we readily respond kindly to them. Jesus described it in these words, “For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?” (Matt. 5:46). The measure of our kindness is not determined by how we treat those who are kind to us.

It is so hard to be kind to some people. Those words of Jesus follow His words about how we should deal with our enemies, with those who curse us, with those who hate us and those who despise us, with those who out of spite take advantage of us and persecute us. We are to love them, bless them, do good to them and pray for them. Here is the measure of true kindness. It is manifested in how we treat people who are rude to us in the market place, to co-workers who mistreat us, to family members who aggravate us and to all those whose agenda seems to be to hurt us with words and deeds. Here is the measure of true kindness.

Kindness is not what we do, it is what we are. The reality is that if we wait until the moment of conflict with unkind people to decide what to do, we will likely respond unkindly. Kindness is a trait of heart, not an artificial action. Kind people do not have to decide to act kindly. This is their automatic response! It is who they are.

God help us to be kind one to another!

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A Reason to Change

Let us Reason Together

 “Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.  (19)  If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land:  (20)  But if ye refuse and rebel, ye shall be devoured with the sword: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it…” (Isaiah 1:18-20)

reason to stop sin

Reason to stop sin!

Our Lord invited the unfaithful children of God to reason together with Him. They had forgotten the sovereignty of God. They had turned away from the One who had brought them up out of bondage and delivered them into that land “that floweth with milk and honey…” (Lev. 20:24) They had done that which even their domesticated livestock had not done – they had forgotten who their master was.

“Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth: for the LORD hath spoken, I have nourished and brought up children, and they have rebelled against me.  (3)  The ox knoweth his owner, and the ass his master’s crib: but Israel doth not know, my people doth not consider…” (Isaiah 1:2-3)

God had done so much for them, yet they forgot Him;  turned their back on Him; went in the opposite direction from Him.  “Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the LORD, they have provoked the Holy One of Israel unto anger, they are gone away backward…” (Isaiah 1:4)

Even with all this, the Lord pleaded with them to reason with Him. The word “reason” here indicates that God is calling (commanding really) for an end to His dispute with Israel over their sin. He offered them complete and total pardon. Though their sins were a red, bloody stain upon their lives, He would pardon them to point that the scarlet stain of their sins was washed away and the condition of their  souls were made pure once more. This reasoning was based upon all that He had done for them. This pardon was offered to those who would become obedient to His will. The offer of cleansing would not be extended to those who chose to remain in their sin.

Sin leaves a crimson stain upon all who give into it. Our sins mar the perfection of our souls; ruin our holiness; destroy our immortal souls. God calls on us to respond to His offer of salvation and cleansing. Let us reason based upon the love of God who “gave His only begotten Son” to take away the stain of our sins. When we apply the understanding of this great love and sacrifice, and our knowledge of the “mercies of God,” surely it must cause us to want to give our reasonable response to that perfect sacrifice.

“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.  (2)  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God…” (Romans 12:1-2)

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Eschatology

Eschatology

I believe the first time I ever saw the term “ eschatology ” was when I was thumbing through the classic work, “Systematic Theology” by the late Rex A. Turner, Sr., years and years ago. The term simply refers to “a study of last things.” Indeed, the afterlife intrigues many people. What will happen after death? Will one cease to exist? Will some eternal entity reincarnate the dead into another creature? People pose endless questions concerning that which is beyond our grasp, at least, without divine revelation. The Bible gives just what we need concerning eschatology, and without such, we would be in the dark, groping for knowledge that is impossible to perceive. In fact, Jesus taught much concerning it. If we look at some of His teachings while He was on earth, we could refute many false doctrines that many teach about this subject.

Jesus repudiated the doctrine of universal salvation. Many in our society and world today believe that God will save everyone and anyone because He is so good and gracious. In fact, former President George W. Bush reacted to the death of seven astronauts in Space Shuttle Columbia back in 2003 by alluding to their place in heaven, regardless of how they lived or whether they obeyed the gospel of Jesus Christ. Nevertheless, Jesus repudiated such thinking when He said in Matthew 7:13-14,

Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.

With this as His background, He later explains that only those who obey the will of God will inherit heaven (7:21-27).

Jesus repudiated the doctrine of annihilation. Atheists certainly believe that when one dies, he simply annihilates and ceases to exist. Yet, others who claim to be Christians believe that the wicked souls will be annihilated rather than live eternally in torment (i.e. Edward Fudge). Jesus repudiated such when He said in John 5:28-29,

Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice, And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.

Jesus repudiated spiritualism, such as psychics and necromancers, who claim to be able to speak with the dead. The great magician Harry Houdini told his closest friends and family that his ultimate feat would be to come back from the dead to speak to them. Naturally, he never did. Currently, we have several well-known spiritualists airing on television who deceive far too many in our world of their faux powers. Jesus denied such activity in His account of the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:27-31. The rich man desperately wanted to go back and speak with his family, but he could not.

Jesus repudiated the idea of having a second chance after death. The Buddhist’s doctrine of rein – carnation and the Catholic’s doctrine of Purgatory are just a few of such doctrines. Yet, Jesus spoke a parable about a rich fool who said,

And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? (Luke 12:19-20)

There would be no second chance for him. Jesus repudiated the teaching of miraculous power apart from the word of God. With so many false doctrines concerning miracles, including those to take place with the afterlife, Jesus explains that one could never separate miracles from scripture (John 6:44-45; 8:31-32).

Jesus repudiated the doctrine of temporary punishment. For those who think that the punishment of the wicked is only temporary, consider again the teaching of Jesus about the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:23-26.

We might not know every answer to every question concerning the afterlife, but certainly God revealed exactly what we need to know in order to be prepared to meet Him in that time (cf. Deut. 29:29).

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The Power of Influence

The Power of Influence

One of the most striking ways the Bible teaches us concerning the power of influence is with the illustration of leaven. The statement, “A little leaven leavens the whole lump” is stated twice in Scripture (1Cor. 5:6, Gal. 5:9).  In fact, the word “leaven” is used 11 times in the New Testament and in each place, it is used with reference to the pervading power of influence.  Now, leaven is a substance that causes fermentation, like yeast, and when only a small amount is added to a large lump of dough it ferments the whole lump.  Thus, while it is small in quantity that permeates the whole substance it comes in contact, so it is with influence, meaning, that it only takes a little to have a great effect.

a little can influence much

A little can influence much.

Now, influence can be either for good or bad.  The kind of influence we have on others is based on what we allow to influence ourselves and if we are not careful, some influences may be slowly corrupt and change us.  One can see the influencing power of leaven by the way it changes the dough’s shape and temperature.  Thus, if we allow the leaven of this world to influence us, our lives will slowly be changed from what God would have them to be, into lives filled with worldliness and sin.  For, it only takes one companion with wicked thoughts and lifestyle to gradually lead you into the same kind of sin.  Likewise, evil influences are all around us and if we are not careful, we could infect our minds with filth and desires that God does not want us to have.  Therefore, we must focus on the good and have good influence on others less we do wrong and be held accountable for our wrongful influence on others.

Now, whether we think so or not, there is someone who is watching us.  Consciously or not, someone is being influenced by our words and actions.  Thus, what we do and say might seem insignificant, but in reality, our influence has a far reaching effect.  We have influence in our community, in the work place, and especially in our homes.  Children are mainly molded by the kind of influence they receive from their parents and children who are influenced by parents who are worldly minded and insensitive toward sin, will grow up to have the same mind set. Therefore, we must never allow our influence to become a stumbling block to others.  For as Jesus declared, “whoso shall cause one of these little ones that believe on me to stumble, it is profitable for him that a great millstone should be hanged about his neck, and that he should be sunk in the depth of the sea.  Woe unto the world because of occasions of stumbling! for it must needs be that the occasions come; but woe to that man through whom the occasion cometh!” (Matt. 18:6-7 ASV).  Now, what are you allowing to influence your life?  What kind of influence are you having on those around you?

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Slavery and Women

Slavery and the Role of Women

“When the church faced the issue of slavery on the eve of the Civil War it took sides and took them vehemently. Both sides turned to scripture to validate and justify their position. Now, with the benefit of hindsight, we see that both the Old Testament and Paul’s instructions on slavery were indeed cultural even though they are given as commands (slaves OBEY your masters). It is my prayer that it does not take us a century and a half to come to the same conclusions about the roles of women in the church.”

slavery to christ willingly serving god

Slavery in Christ? Willingly Serving God.

This oft-used argument (obtained from the “comments” section of a particular website) as well as a wellspring of others extremely similar to it, seeking to equate God’s scriptural commandments restricting women from teaching or leading over men, and/or speaking out and up in our worship assemblies (I Tim. 2:8-15, 1 Cor. 14:33-37) with slavery, are so poor and porous from so many perspectives, that they would be pretty preposterous if they weren’t quite so pitiful.

To begin with, in regions of the globe today where slavery does still exist, does this mean that God’s commandments regarding Christians who are still slaves are not still in effect? Should those who are still slaves today showcase their sincere Christianity through revolt, rebellion, and insurrection instead (See Eph. 6:5-6)?

Secondly, OF COURSE those divinely-inspired instructions to slaves do not – and cannot, by virtue of good old common and biblical sense – apply in a culture such as today’s America which no longer has slaves as it did in the early 1800’s: No slaves – no application of the divinely-inspired instructions concerning them! That’s pretty easy to understand, isn’t it? But; for those who still want to continue to try to use God’s divinely inspired commandments regarding slavery, as a parallel to God’s divinely inspired commandments regarding women, then let’s honestly do so, on a truly parallel basis for just once in our lives, or else stop using it altogether. In other words, of course God’s instructions to slaves have ceased to be applied in our modern-day American culture where slavery, as it was practiced in pre-civil war America, no longer exists. And the exact same thing is absolutely and unquestionably true concerning God’s rules on women’s roles in the church: Where, when, and if, women – like slaves – ever no longer exist in our culture, then surely God’s restrictions on their roles in religious settings should most certainly cease to be applied as well! But as long as there has been no civil war to outlaw having women in our homes, society, and assemblies (And thank God there hasn’t been and never will be!), then God’s instructions are indeed to be applied and put into practice, whenever and wherever godly women – unlike slaves today in the pre-civil war sense of course – are still in existence!

Thirdly, those who apparently, purposefully use the word “slavery,” along with its well-known and very negative connotation of one who was made a slave entirely against their will (as was tragically the case in pre-civil war America), continually use that word, most likely I presume, in reference to “Paul’s instructions on slavery” in passages such as Eph. 6:5-6, Col. 3:22, and 1 Tim. 6:1 for example (which see). Ironically, these are passages wherein the Greek word “duolos” is instead used – a word with a completely different meaning and connotation than the one they seem to want to seek to communicate with “slavery.” “Duolos” is defined as a “bondservant;” that is to say, one who freely, willingly gives themselves up to another’s will; one who willingly – not grudgingly, or out of compulsion, or against their will – devotes themselves to another’s service.

And THAT sort of willing bondservice (which some want to so wrongly label “slavery” in the worst possible sense in order to try to make a point that is scripturally unsustainable) IS CERTAINLY still around today. Anyone today (including quite probably, even most surely many of those who say that “slavery” in the sense used in the bible is “cultural” and no longer around today) who works on a job where they have a boss or supervisor, is still a “bondservant” (or “slave”) in the biblical sense thereof! Therefore, “Paul’s instructions on slavery” in passages like Eph. 6:5-6, Col. 3:22, and 1 Tim. 6:1 for example, are alive and well, and yet in effect, and still apply in 21st century America today – and always will for as long as any of us still have to work for a living, willingly putting ourselves and our services under someone else’s authority.

And so we see that just like God’s restrictions on women leading which date back to the creation (2 Tim. 2:8-15), this sort of “bondservice” (Eph. 6:5-6, Col. 3:22, and 1 Tim. 6:1) is also timeless; it is what all faithful Christians unmistakably practice on an hourly basis in today’s America as well. They willingly put themselves under Christ. They willingly submit to His will… unless of course Romans 6:16-19 wherein we are called to be “slaves” (“duolos” – “bondservants”) of God and righteousness are no longer binding either, being somehow “outlawed” by the Civil War (?!?). And this “bondservice” is also exactly what faithful Christian women continually and willingly practice and submit themselves to, when it comes to their Lord and Savior, and their heavenly Father’s commandments, such as are contained in scriptures like 1 Corinthians 14 and 1 Timothy 2.

Yes, in fact, Christian women who love the Lord actually are still “slaves” today in the biblical sense – willing bondservants of Jesus Christ – and they always will be! And they therefore submit themselves to His authority daily, as do I as yet another very willing bondservant of God and slave of righteousness (Romans 6:16-19). All faithful Christians – male or female (Gal. 3:26-29) – are exactly that and will be until the end of time, or else not be Christians at all. The day Christians cease to be God’s willing “slaves” – that is to say, “bondservants” – is the day they will cease to be Christians – whether they admit, know it, or not!

Am I a “slave” of Jesus Christ? Absolutely! Am I a willingly submissive servant of His word who voluntarily submits to His all-encompassing authority? Once again yes and absolutely! I wouldn’t have it any other way! And neither would any of the good and faithful God-fearing Christian sisters I know!

And so the next time some Christian or congregation seeks to circumvent the clear-cut commandments of God as exclusively expressed and evidenced in the divinely-inspired Scriptures (such as in 1 Corinthians 14:33-37 and 1 Timothy 2:8-15), with the old, “Well, that’s only as culturally-binding as slavery” line, take their ill-advised illustration all the way through to its logical (and therefore totally illogical and actually, quite unloving – John 14:15) conclusion.

In closing, it is my prayer that it does not take us any longer than it took to read this short article, to come to the proper, godly and God-fearing biblical conclusion, regarding the roles of both male and female bondservants and slaves of God and His righteousness, in the church of our Lord Jesus Christ. “The churches of Christ greet you” (Romans 16:16)!

 

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