Spending This Day

What Are You Doing with Today?

how are you using this day

How are you using this day?

I remember having a conversation that took place years ago with a brother about education. I was considering returning to school to finish my college degree. I remember making the excuse of being almost fifty years old when I would finish. This kind brother responded that, unless I was to die before then or Jesus was to return, “You are going to be fifty anyway. You can be fifty with a degree or you can be fifty without a degree.” Well, this past week I finished that degree, and I owe so much to my wife and children, as well as my Point Pleasant family, for all the love, support, and encouragement I have been so blessed with. Without you I could not have done it!

Spiritually speaking everyone dies! That, in and of itself, is a sad statement. Out of context and viewed through the prism of human wisdom the thought of death is distressing. And so mankind asks, “What is the meaning of life.” The psalmist, in Psalm 86 – 90, is right when he says that his life draws to the grave and he is but another man who will die and be buried (88:3 – 4). He says that our lives are like a story that is told and then it is over: and if we live to be 80 years old we soon die and leave this life (90:9 – 10). Over this we have no control. And when this life is over we will stand before God and give an answer and we need to know that in His dwelling place is justice and judgment.

So many make excuses for not obeying the Christian life. “I’m too old.” “I don’t know enough.” “I’m not good enough.” “What if…?” Look, the fact is that we are all going to die and there is nothing we can do about it (Ecclesiastes 8:8). And after death each one of us will stand before a righteous Judge and give an account for our lives (Hebrews 9:27; 2 Corinthians 5:10). So you are going to stand before God one way or another. Why would you not prepare yourself for that inevitable day?

We are often asked, “How are you spending your days?” The more immediate and important question is “How are you spending your day?” Today! “Today, if you will hear His voice, do not harden your hearts” (Hebrews 4:7). “I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation” (2 Corinthians 6:2).

Make your life worth while: love, serve, obey, and be faithful! Don’t delay…why not now?

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The Sin of Gambling

Gambling

is gambling a harmless form of recreation

Is gambling a harmless form of recreation?

In the 1980s there was a series of movies called “Back to the Future” starring Michael J. Fox. In these movies, the main character, Marty McFly, had a special car that could travel into the past and future. In the second movie on a trip to the future, Marty allowed his nemesis, Biff Tannen (played by Thomas F. Wilson), to get possession of a sports book that recorded final scores to every major sporting event through the year 2000 (which was still 15 years away in 1985). He took this book back to himself in the year 1955 which enabled him to obtain a fortune gambling on sports. He then used this fortune to turn their clean cut home town into a Las Vegas style gambling Mecca complete with strip clubs, prostitution, and large casinos. In the movie, the place was an obvious cesspool of decadence, corruption, avarice, and immorality. That was the 1980’s perception of what gambling would do to one’s life and town.

Times have changed and those involved in the business of gambling have retooled their product, at least, to the public eye. Las Vegas has spent billions of dollars trying to change the public’s perception. They have built theme-park hotels with “family friendly” attractions. They offer free meals and cheap accommodations. They falsely “promise” that what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. And by and large the public has swallowed the lie hook, line, and sinker. The fact of the matter is that all of these peripheral attractions are driven by one necessary ingredient�gambling. Without the gambling, there would be no theme-park hotels, shows, free meals, cheap accommodations, and false promises of keeping secret “indiscretions.” The gambling drives it all; that is where the money is made. They know that if people will come for these other reasons, then they will gamble.

Gambling itself has also been retooled in the eyes of the public. It was once associated with mob violence, prostitution, and corruption. Today it has been recast in the minds of many to simply be another form of recreation on which to spend one’s “disposable” income. Many states have, in fact, legalized gambling in the form of lotteries, para-mutual gambling laws, or floating casinos all based upon the promise of an improved economy and better school systems. The word gambling is avoided in the industry, in favor of the term gaming as “gambling” still has such a negative connotation in the minds of many. But is gambling simply another form of recreation? Does its being legal make it right? What, in fact, is gambling?

At its most fundamental level, gambling is really nothing more than what the Bible calls covetousness. What is most commonly understood as “gambling” in our culture is to risk one’s own money to gain someone else’s money based upon some kind of chance. The American Heritage dictionary defines gambling in the following way: “To take a risk in the hope of gaining an advantage or a benefit.” The same dictionary defines covetousness as follows: “Excessively and culpably desirous of the possessions of another.” It is not hard to see that gambling is really an act of covetousness inasmuch as it is a desire to possess money that belongs to someone else through minimal investment of our own. This was exactly the attitude that Jesus rebuked in Luke 12:15 when he said to a man disputing his inheritance, “Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.”

Covetousness is repeatedly condemned in the New Testament as a sinful attitude which the Christian ought not to possess. It is listed as a sin in Romans 1:29 alongside of murder and fornication. It is listed as a sin in 1 Corinthians 5:10,11 and 6:10 among theft, idolatry and drunkenness. It is listed as a sin in 2 Timothy 3:2 among pride, blasphemy and unholiness. And Ephesians 5:5 says that those who practice it will not have any inheritance in the kingdom of God (Ephesians 5:5). In this regard, even if one wins at gambling, he has still sinned because he has taken something from another based upon an inordinate desire.

Gambling is also sinful because it is irresponsible. God has blessed us with earthly necessities based upon His expectation that we work for those necessities (Acts 20:34, Ephesians 4:28). God always retains ownership of these possessions (Psalm 24:1, 1 Corinthians 10:26). This means that we are mere stewards of these possessions and not true owners. It is our task, as stewards, to be faithful with those things and not use them irresponsibly (1 Corinthians 4:2). Can one be faithful with such things by gambling them? Can one be faithful to one’s wife by gambling her to other men? Can one be faithful with one’s life by gambling it with a game of Russian Roulette? Can one be faithful to one’s children by putting them up as a stake in a game of chance? We readily acknowledge that one simply would not be faithful by so acting. Why then, ought we to think that God sees us as faithful when we so act with His possessions?

Many say that gambling is just something they do for fun and is no different than playing a game. If such is truly the case, then why not simply pay to play the game without expecting something in return? Why doesn’t Las Vegas simply give the money back to those who lost when they walk out the door? The fact of the matter is that gambling is only “fun” when you win someone else’s money and that is the essence of covetousness. This sin is no different from any other in that regard. Sin has always been considered “fun” by those who practice it in the world. Moses refused to engage in such “fun” so that he could be with God’s people (Hebrews 11:25). Something is only “fun” if, in fact, it isn’t sinful to begin with. We may rationalize gambling as “having fun” but then so also may someone rationalize fornication, adultery, or even murder. Saying that something is “fun” doesn’t mean that it isn’t sinful.

Gambling is a great evil upon our society. It robs the poor of their hard earned money while lining the pockets of the rich. It teaches men to covet his neighbors’ possessions and wealth. It deceives with promises that usually are never fulfilled. It robs society of income that could be used for more noble projects than floating casinos and theme-park hotels. Yet each year millions throng these places of ill-repute to cast away their hard earned money. The con artist deceives himself by saying, “I don’t take money away from other people; they give it to me,” yet we recognize him as nothing more than a witty thief. Why ought we not to see the gambling industry in the same light? As Christians, let us have nothing to do with such profligate wickedness.

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Providing Temptation

Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea” (Matt. 18:6).

our lack of modesty as well as our behavior can be a temptation

Our lack of modesty as well as our behavior can be a temptation.

No one is exempt from temptation.  Even Jesus was tempted, though He never gave into it (Heb. 4:15). You see, it is not a sin to be tempted (for that is beyond our control), but it is a sin to give in to temptation.  For this reason God provides a way for us to escape every temptation (1 Cor. 10:13). Therefore, there is never an excuse to sin.  With that said, however, it is important for us to realize that we can actually be a source of temptation to others.  A beautiful woman in a bikini will arouse wanton desire in the heart of men – thus, she has provided temptation, and many will give in to it.  Jesus said, “Woe to the world because of offenses!  For offenses must come, but woe to that man by whom the offense comes!” (Matt. 18:7).  Let us “make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts” (Rom. 13:14).

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Giving Godly Values

Giving Godly Values to Our Children

The teen reaches that place in life when he/she begins making decisions (perhaps unknown to a parent) which involve right and wrong. How those decisions are made are based on the system of values that child has learned and embraced. It is imperative that we understand the place and source of values on which decisions are made.

what values are directing your teens decisions

What values are directing your teens decisions?

Every teen has values. How does a teen decide what to do when making decisions? He first looks at the choices before him, checks each against his values and then acts based upon those values.

Some teens value instant gratification above all other matters. They assume that whatever feels right at the moment is what should be done.   Nothing in the past or future should be considered. This value can be expressed in these words. “I have the right to be happy, so I define happiness as that which brings me joy at this moment, and this is what I will do.” This value says that nothing in life is more important than myself. My “happiness” is all that matters!

Some teens value peer pressure and social acceptance above all other matters. The importance of being accepted by others is a powerful force. It is difficult to stand firm about matters when hardly anyone else has the values a teen was taught. It is reflected in the dress, the language, the respect of authority, the honor given to teachers and parents, and in moral decisions about drinking and where to draw the line in sexual matters. Right or wrong, which might be considered at first, become secondary to being accepted by others.

Every teen has only two sources of values. The first psalm speaks of the counsel of the ungodly, the paths chosen by sinners and sharing the attitude of the scornful. The word scornful indicates those who mock, deride and treat sacred things with contempt. The other source is that which comes from godly individuals who abhor sin and have the highest regard for sacred matters. Parents, remember that if you fail to create this second category of values, the world will fill the heart and soul of your child with scorn and contempt.

Every child must have his own values. Values are far more that rules you give your child to obey. This works well when they are very young, but fails when they consider themselves as adults. Peter speaks of the reason for our hope. Teens create their own righteous values when they learn to honor and love God and to fear Him. Make sure that your child grows up realizing the evidence that God is and the proof that Jesus is His son. Teach them early the reason why Jesus is the Lord who loves us and who will judge us someday. These truths become the basis for values needed by every teen!

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That Big Tree

The Silver Maple

we can learn a lot from a tree

We can learn a lot from a tree.

We had a silver maple that was planted next to our home, many years before we moved in.  How many years?  No idea really.  In comparison to the home, the tree rose up and above the home’s highest two story peak.  To say that it was big, is not an exaggeration.  Was it solid?  Absolutely!  We had a tree service fall the tree for us since it was so close to our home.  The tree service moved pieces off the driveway, but left the clean up and cut up for us to handle.  Little by little I whittled away on the tree with saw and axe.  Slowly, I was able to size the tree into pieces to which I could move off my driveway.  By the next winter, the tree was warming someone’s home as it’s wood crackled in a fireplace.

How many things that tree must have seen over the years.  How many storms it must have endured.  How many children did it hold upon it’s limbs?  The tree was surely looked upon as stately and strong simply for the length of time it has been in its place.  Soon, not even the stump will remain of the once towering tree.  The tree could not defend itself against attack.

How many christians have been in their place for a long time (third pew on the right, back from the front, first place to sit).  How many are known simply for the length of time they have been in that place.  Due to longetivity, they have seen everyone come and go.  They know everyone in the building.  The have seen babies born, grow, and leave.  When their time comes though, will they be able to defend themselves.  Many brothers and sisters, though given ample opportunity, don’t know their bible.  They don’t read it outside of services. They don’t know their savior.  They don’t know their faith.  When it comes time for them to defend themselves scripturally, they cannot.  As the tree, when the time to defend themselves comes, they are cut down to size.

2Ti 2:15 Give diligence to present thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, handling aright the word of truth.

Eph 6:11 Put on the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

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