Me Generation Humility

Me Generation –  It’s Not All About You… Or Me

Every generation will get a dose of humility at some point.

Every generation will get a dose of humility at some point.

I have looked into the tearful eyes of many parents as they shared the details of their children abandoning Christianity. While I have learned a great deal about why young people leave the Church, one nugget that has stood out  from such conversations is that there is a million miles between our children “going through the motions” in reference to their spiritual life versus our children possessing a heart that dictates their actions. Thus, I think it is vitally important for parents, teachers, preachers, and elders to get to the heart of the matter. In this column I hope to share with you what I hope to instill in the hearts of my own children and those whom I love

Generational names are not new. Those individuals who are now waltzing into their golden years have been long termed Baby Boomers. The X-generation watched the fall of the Berlin Wall and the end of the Cold War. The latest generation has been labeled by many as the “Me Generation.” (Or maybe better termed the “I-Me” generation.) This generation has grown up embracing the notion that the world literally revolves around their very existence. Now don’t get me wrong—they have had good role models. The Baby Boomers set the precedent on being a “me generation.” The X-generation then filled in any missing gaps by filling their homes with gadgets, electronics, and technology to please their own desires. So now along comes an extremely narcissistic generation that expects their every want and desire to be fulfilled. Is this a healthy outlook on life, and what does the Bible have to say regarding this mentality?

Here’s what I intend on teaching my children—children who are currently growing up in the Me Generation:

While I love you deeply, it never has been, or never will be, all about you. That does not change my love for you, but it does help us put things into perspective. This world has existed for a long time before you and I came into it. And, Lord willing, it will continue on long after we are gone. It’s not all about you. Simply put, it’s all about Him.

This “I-Me” attitude has become an epidemic. During your life, you will meet many people who believe they come first—that the world truly revolves around them. Never lose sight of the fact that the Bible clearly teaches us that every knee will bow to God (Isaiah 45:23) no matter how rich or famous. This same sentiment is applied to Jesus in Philippians 2:9-11. How frightening will it be to look upon Jehovah God on that Great Day having lived a life revolving around yourself?

James admonished, “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up” (James 4:10). The Bible teaches us that one of the six things God hates is a proud look (Proverbs 6:16-17). The inspired writer of Proverb 3:34 proclaimed that God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. It’s my prayer that you will grow into humble servants of God. Humility is a trait that must be cultivated in your heart. Always ask yourself why you are doing what you are doing.

No matter how great we believe our accomplishments to be, there will always be someone out there who is wealthier, prettier, smarter, or more successful. There will always be someone who has traveled further, built bigger, or accumulated more. But remember, these are worldly standards of success. If you place all of your happiness and peace in your own self-image or your own accomplishments, then you are ultimately going to live a miserable life.

In Micah 6:8 the question is raised: “And what does the Lord require of you, but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?” Is this the message we are sending our children today?

Having tasted every single thing this world had to offer, Solomon reminded us “vanity of vanities, all is vanity” (Ecclesiastes 1:2). He then concluded by reminding us the whole duty of man was to “fear God and keep His commandments” (Ecclesiastes 12:13).

Please make sure this I-Me attitude does not infect your heart. Make sure this narcissistic attitude does not enter the Church. Our worship to God is not all about you or your personal desires. It’s about Him. He is the audience of our worship and praise—not man. As you look for a husband or wife, as you raise your children, as you find a congregation to worship with, remember Who the world truly revolves around. For without Him, the world would not revolve at all.

Love,

Dad

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Black Friday

Black(est) Friday

There is one black Friday that was darker than all others.

There is one black Friday that was darker than all others.

“Black Friday.” Everything you see and hear this week seems to revolve around it. Originally the invention of enterprising retailers to achieve even greater sales numbers through seeking to “one up” everyone else by offering the deepest, greatest, and earliest morning discounts for the day after thanksgiving (traditionally the heaviest shopping day of the year anyway), this fanatical shopping craze has caught on like wildfire! Prior to the past few years wherein some car dealerships and retailers have recently diluted the process (while still seeking to attract consumers with the “Black Friday” tag of course) by offering so-called “Black Friday” deals and discounts throughout the hours, days, and even weeks leading up to it, some consumers had been known to actually line up and “camp out” in front of some stores in the past, in order to get in and get the best deals and deepest discounts the earliest. And quite frankly, some of the discounts and savings on some of those items were quite simply unimaginable!

But there is another “Black Friday” – indeed the very “Blackest Friday” of them all; the blackest, bleakest, most unbelievable Friday morning in all of human history – the one that every person on the planet should be far more aware of, far more involved with, and far more grateful for. Like the “Black Friday” we are so accustomed to, it too, began in the early, pre-dawn hours. But that is pretty much where any further similarities come to a screeching and very sudden stop.

On this bleak, black Friday pre-dawn morning, the very sinless, pure, perfect, and only begotten Son of the Living God, would be betrayed, arrested, and as the morning wore on, mocked, rejected, scourged, beaten, spat upon, and crucified. He would pay the ultimate price to purchase you and I back from the power of sin, satan, and death… (See: 1 Peter 1:17-21; Hebrews 2:14-16; and etc.). Within the context of that unimaginably horrific event, He, God in the very flesh, would utter phrases that should melt even the proudest and stoutest of lost sinners’ hearts…

“The hour has come that the Son of Man should be glorified. Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain. He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also. If anyone serves Me, him My Father will honor. “Now My soul is troubled, and what shall I say? ‘Father, save Me from this hour’? But for this purpose I came to this hour. Father, glorify Your name.” (John 12:23-28)

 Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to the disciples, “Sit here while I go and pray over there.” And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed. Then He said to them, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.” (Matthew 26:36-38).

And about the ninth hour, Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, “Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?”that is, “My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me? (Matthew 27:46).

Although Jesus had waited for this moment not for a night, or for a week or two, but since from even before the beginning of time (Eph. 1:3, 3:8-12), He did not come to pay a fraction of the original price for new items that should’ve cost far more like we do on “Black Friday,” but instead, just the opposite! He came to pay an infinitely greater price than we can, could, or will ever imagine, for used, broken down, dying and decaying, dirty and sin-stained souls destined for destruction.

They say something is worth only as much as someone is willing to pay for it. I was reminded of this this past summer when an NFL player signed a mega-million dollar contract and received – are you ready for this – an on the spot, twenty million dollar signing bonus! “That’s insane!” some would say… and I agree. Do you realize that many full time preachers of the gospel whose work has eternal implications would have to work somewhere between 375 and 400 years at today’s wages in order to earn the amount of money that that one player received, simply for signing his name to the dotted line? But… someone is worth whatever someone else is willing to pay for them (at least to the purchaser who is willing to put forth that kind of investment) – in that case, more millions than you or I can begin to imagine.

But God paid far, far, infinitely more for you and I than that, that fatal, final, black Friday morning of almost two millennia ago. The perfect and pure life-blood of His only begotten Son; that’s what you, yes, you… personally… were worth to Him (Isaiah 53:1-12; Romans 5:1-11).

What do you do with something you’ve stood in line a few hours or so to purchase on “Black Friday,” when you finally get it home and then find out it doesn’t work? Take it back? Throw it out? Surely you discard it in some form or fashion. You bought it for a specific purpose; and when it doesn’t do what you purchased it to do – no matter how much of a price you paid for it, and more often than not, precisely because of the price you paid for it – you wind up returning, exchanging, replacing, or discarding it.

Consider with me for just a moment, the awesome, infinite, and unimaginable price God paid to purchase you back from sin and Satan that original black Friday morning. Then, understand that you were “purchased for a purpose.” And that the purpose for which you were personally purchased by almighty God and the King of this universe, was to serve at His pleasure, speaking His praises, and spreading His promises (See: Ephesians 2:10; Titus 2:11-14, 3:8; 1 Peter 2:9-10). You were saved to serve and purchased to perform (Romans 2:4-11; Revelation 14:12-13, 20:11-15).

This coming Thursday as you sit down with unsaved family and friends to celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday just a few hours prior to this year’s “Black Friday” frenzy, remember: “You were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and spirit which are God’s” (1 Corinthians 6:20). Fulfill the purpose you were purchased to perform! Proclaim the message you were saved to spread! Tell them all about that original, incredible, incomparable and infinitely-unforgettable black Friday so many years ago. The one where the very Son of God Himself, paid the ultimate price for a bunch of broken vessels… and be as worthy as you can possibly be, of the immeasurable price and infinite, incarnate investment which God paid for, and poured into, you; as you thus do exactly what He purchased you to. God bless!

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Saying the Word Hell

Is Saying the Word “Hell” a no-no?

Should the word hell pass your lips?

Should the word hell pass your lips?

Quite often in the 1950-1970’s, when members of the church got together with those on the outside of the church, great debates would take place. In the many disagreements that came forth, some members of the church would come right out and tell one in a denomination that they are going to Hell. You can, in your mind, see the shock on that person’s face as those words are spoken to him. What an awful thing to say or, is it? Similar exchanges like this have been made inside the church between members. But, should we say such things? Many are appalled by the word and find it rude. Well . . . so what?

When one preaches the Gospel and there are a few who will not obey the Gospel, do we not already know that they are Hellbound? This is not to sound mean, nor is it to be said in a mean spirited way, but what else can be said about the matter? When a faithful member does not agree with such wordings, they may come and state that you cannot say that a person is going to Hell. Why not? Some say it is judging and that is to be left up to God. Others may say that you cannot say one is going to Hell because mankind does not have that right. Really? Is this true? What book, chapter and verse is this found in the Bible?

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, there are many who are indeed Hellbound in this world and if one does not tell them the Truth without sugar coating it, that is where they are going because perhaps they will never know otherwise. Will we be to blame if our brother stumbles and we did not tell him that he was stumbling? Are we too satisfied with allowing them to go to Hell with a smile on their face? Are we, in the name of “tact” allowing precious souls to go to a place prepared for the Devil and his angels?

The Bible makes it very clear that many will go down the broad way which leads to destruction (Matt. 7:13-14). Who are these people? They are the ones who are not obedient to the Lord, who will not walk in the light. Non believers and those who will not submit to the Lord will be lost (Mk. 16:15-16; 2 Thess. 1:7-10; Rev. 22:14). The lost ones are those whose names are not written in the book of life (Rev. 20:11-15). And according to Matt. 7:21-23, did you know that many who profess to follow God, those we never reached to correct, those we never tried to snatch from the fires of Hell, will suffer for all eternity? Do you still think we should say nothing?

It is sin that separates one from God (Isa. 59:1-2; Rom. 6:23). If one dies in his sins, he will be eternally lost (Jn. 8:24; James 5:19-20). The facts is, not all will accept Jesus as their King of Kings and Lord of Lords. There are many in the church and outside the church who will not submit to Him in humility and meekness and because of that, they are lost. I do not want to go to torment, do you? Do you want the person sitting next to you to burn for eternity and blame you for it? Have you ever heard the song, “You Never Mentioned Him to Me?” The chorus reads, “you met me day by day and knew I was astray, Yet never mentioned Him to me.”

We should never want to be in eternal punishment, eternal destruction, eternal judgment. This is not the place for us. Paul said, “And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation; To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God. For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.” (2 Cor. 5:18-21).

Let us all strive together in faith. Let us all work together towards Heaven and for those glorious robes of white and our everlasting crowns. Let us help each other in the spirit of love and do for one another as we hope that they would do for us, especially if we are in the wrong. We do not have time to be poise. Let us not be as the priesthood under the Law of Moses which Malachi said, “But ye are departed out of the way; ye have caused many to stumble at the law; ye have corrupted the covenant of Levi, saith the LORD of hosts” (Mal. 2:8). Let us not be the cause of stumbling, but help one another from stumbling and help them stand when they have stumbled so that no one is bound for Hell!

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Help and Hurt

Our Help is in the Lord

All of us experience hardships and face struggles that make little or no sense to us.  Sometimes the hurt comes from what others do to us, sometimes we cause our own pain, sometimes it takes place at work, or in our home or family, or in our finances.  The fact is, there are times of hardship in all our lives.  God knows this is our situation; that’s why he sent his Son to save us.

God is ready when your hurt needs help.

God is ready when your hurt needs help.

Do you remember how hard life got for the mothers of Bethlehem a few months after Christ’s birth when Herod murdered their children (Matt. 2:13-23)?  God sent Jesus to offer hope, and right away Herod caused the deaths of all those little boys!  As a parents, I can’t imagine the suffering of those families.  Had they known this was caused by the birth of Jesus, they might not have been so thrilled to know the Messiah had come.  Yet, in the midst of all this hurt, God demonstrated how much he cares for us.

Remember that God warned Joseph three times about what Herod intended to do, thus intervening to save Jesus’ life.  That’s the good news in this story.  God is not on vacation, way off in the distance watching our lives as some disinterested being.  He is involved in our lives, helping us cope with the hurt that he sees.  That’s what “Immanuel” means – “God with us” (Matt. 1:23).  God sent his Son to let us know that he is close by and wants to be involved in our everyday lives.

He is not only close, but is busy in your life.  When you are hurting, it is often difficult to see God at work around you.  But he is caring and loving and working for your good (Rom. 8:28).  He knows how much we hurt, and he stays close by to help.  And in the end, he will give us the victory through Jesus, as long as we obey his will (1 Cor. 15:57; Heb. 5:9).

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Acting Presumptuously

Acting Presumptuously

In 2 Samuel 6–10 we read of several individuals who act presumptuously.

Do you choose your actions presumptuously?

Do you choose your actions presumptuously?

In chapter 6 David desires to bring the ark of God to Jerusalem. He acts presumptuously in moving the ark via a new cart that was specially made for the journey. Instead of the ark being carried by the priests as was commanded in the Law the cart was pulled by oxen. When they came to Nachon’s threshing floor the oxen stumbled and Uzzah, standing nearby, reaches out to steady the ark. Touching the ark Uzzah kindles the wrath of God and is struck dead.

In chapter 7 Nathan speaks presumptuously in allowing David to build a house for God. Yet this was not God’s will and David is subsequently refused permission to build a temple for God. This honor would be left to David’s son Solomon. And Nathan is left with “egg on his face.”

In chapter 10 Nahash, the king of Ammon dies and Hanun, his son, takes his place on the throne. acts David sends ambassadors to show his respect following the death of Hanun’s father. However, Nanun deals presumptuously with the delegation. He shaves off half of each man’s beard and stripes them of clothing and sends them away. David’s anger is kindled and the children of Ammon and Syria are defeated by Israel and Hanun is deposed of the throne.

What does all this have to do with us? A close examination of these three stories tells us that we often bring troubles and difficulties upon our selves. The world is filled with enough obstacles to living a peaceable and blessed life, and we as Christian (if we are living right) are going to suffer persecutions (2 Timothy 3:12). Why do we invite even more unnecessary trouble? Simple, we act presumptuously. We act arrogantly, audaciously, insolently, imprudently, and brazenly. Simply put we sin. We don’t stop and ask (and pray) that whatever we are about to say or do is in harmony with God’s will. Bad move!

Life’s hard enough without us having to make it harder. Jesus wants us to enjoy an abundant life (John 10:10). The first steps in doing this is to humble ourselves (James 4:10) and turn our will over to the Father (James 4:15). Confess our sins and His Son (Matthew 10:32; 1 John 1:9), be baptized into Christ for the remission of our sins (Acts 2:38), and arise to walk in newness of life (Romans 6:3–6). Be faithful, live happy!

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