Truly Beautiful

Heart of the Matter: Pretty on the Inside

[In this column I hope to share with you what I hope to instill in the hearts of my own children and those whom I love.]

Are you beautiful?  You can be.

Are you beautiful? You can be.

For three short years, things were going smoothly. God had blessed our family with two healthy boys, and our floors were littered with balls, plastic dinosaur figurines, cars, trains, and castles. I truly believed I had this parenting thing under control. Then my little “princess” was born, and oh, how my life changed.

In the blink of an eye, I began to look at everything from a different perspective. Everything from clothes, television programs, dating, and even marriage was immediately placed under a more powerful microscope. (In fact, prearranged marriages are looking really good right now!) The pressure on young girls to be “pretty” has reached epic proportions in our society. Magazines, television, and movies are constantly bombarding our children with the idea of what is “beautiful.” Ultra-thin models are paraded around as if they were the normal standard for beauty. This constant clamoring for external beauty has even caused many Christian parents to put too much emphasis on physical looks. While society does its best to promote a worldly view of what is attractive, as a parent I realize the importance of teaching a biblical view of beauty.

Here’s what I intend on teaching my children about true beauty—even my two-year old daughter who is already learning to be “pretty on the inside”:

If you try to live up to the world’s standard of beauty, you will lead a very unhappy life. There will always be someone out there who has a prettier complexion, better hair, or is younger looking. You can spend a great deal of time and energy trying to make yourself more attractive—even to the point of surgeries or botox injections. But none of these procedures, potions, or creams will make you beautiful in the eyes of God. I do hope you will learn to be happy and confident in the external “shell” God has given you on this Earth, but never forget that God does not look at external appearances.  One day your current “shell” will be replaced with an incorruptible one (1 Corinthians 15:42). While the mainstream media wants you to believe otherwise, external beauty is fleeting and not important to Almighty God.

Without a doubt, you will meet many individuals who are very pretty on the outside—but some of these same individuals will be very unattractive on the inside. Without going to the extremes of surgery we can’t do much to alter our external looks, but every one of us can make sure that our “inside” is beautiful and very attractive to people. In 1 Samuel 16:7 we read: “But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.’” Simply put, God wants you to be pretty on the inside.

How do we make ourselves pretty on the inside? We cultivate the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) in our hearts. We develop a sincere love for people and their souls (Matthew 22:39; 28:19-20). We need to esteem others higher than ourselves (Philippians 2:3-4). We make sure that people know we are individuals who value integrity and honesty. We are vigilant about  what we allow into our minds (Philippians 4:8). And, we remember that it is the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God (1 Peter 3:4).

It’s my desire that you grow into Christians whom your friends know they can trust, individuals who are respected for their stand for the Truth. I pray that you will cultivate the skill of genuinely listening to others and trying to help when you can. I pray that you will learn to be givers instead of takers. And I hope that you will surround yourselves with individuals with whom you can learn and laugh. If you are able to accomplish some of these key ingredients, then almost everyone you come into contact with will identify you as a beautiful person indeed.

In Isaiah 53:2 the prophet reveals that the coming Messiah “has no form or comeliness; and when we see Him, there is no beauty that we should desire Him.” Yet, Jesus was the most beautiful person on the inside. Is this the beauty our children are striving for?

The day will come when you begin looking for a mate. Your mother and I have been praying for that special person for many years. As you search for that special person to share your life with, I pray that you will find someone who is beautiful on the inside—and someone who will help you get to Heaven. Do I want you to be attracted to their physical appearance? Sure—but I’ve been around long enough to know that those looks will one day fade away. That smooth skin and beautiful hair will one day give way to wrinkles and a new shade of gray. That’s when you will treasure the importance of finding someone who is beautiful on the inside.

I hope that in the coming years people who meet you will stop in their tracks and say out loud or to themselves—“Wow, that person is extremely attractive…on the inside.”

Love, Dad

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Objections to Catholicism

Biblical Objections to Catholicism

Catholicism has always had a large media spotlight, but recently Catholicism has garnered more media attention that usual. This is because of the scandalous events that have surrounded the Catholic Church as of late. The media has focused the spotlight on the abusive sexual practices of the priests in this institution and rightly so. Any time an evil is perpetuated upon society in such a way that society is in danger from such an evil, the media should focus attention upon that evil. The activities of pedofilic priests within the Catholic Church certainly qualify as evil. With all of this heightened attention, however, it is also a good time to take a look at what the scriptures teach regarding the Catholic Church itself. Is it really an institution of good or does the Bible teach that it represents the forces of evil?

What is Catholicism all about?

What is Catholicism all about?

Perhaps the first passage that we need to discuss is one that is found in Matthew 23:8-11. In the midst of a scathing rebuke to the Pharisees, Jesus specifically warns his disciples, “But be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren. And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven. Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master, even Christ. But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.” Jesus is not condemning the idea of describing someone as your father (at home) or your teacher (in school), but the idea of using these monikers as religious titles. So to call another man, “father” as a religious title is specifically forbidden by Jesus as being of the same attitude as those who were hypocrites when it came to practicing religion. Yet this is exactly the practice of the Catholic church. They call their priests “father” and the word “Pope” is just another way to say “Father” as well. The scriptures, however, are clear. Religiously there can be only ONE Father–the one who is in heaven (Ephesians 4:6). For us to call someone else by that name in this manner is idolatry for it is putting a human in the place of God the Father.

Second, Paul had some things to write regarding a great apostasy that was going to come upon the church after the first century. He writes these things in the book of Second Thessalonians 2:3, 4. He says, “let no man beguile you in any wise: for it will not be, except the falling away come first, and the man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition, he that opposeth and exalteth himself against all that is called God or that is worshipped; so that he sitteth in the temple of God, setting himself forth as God.” To paraphrase, Paul says that a great apostasy is coming. When this apostasy comes, there will come a man who will sit in the temple of God and say that he is like God. People will come and worship him also as God. In actuality, Paul says that this is the son of perdition. This description should remind us of the Pope. The Pope sits in the Catholic Church and each day people come and bow themselves down to him (even something that apostles and angels would not allow to be done to them). People kiss his hand and his feet in worship to him. And he, the Pope, sets himself forth as God by claiming to be infallible in his pronouncements. The Pope fits this description of the “son of perdition” to a “T.”

Finally, there is a third clear passage in regard to some of the doctrines of Catholicism that Paul wrote would come upon the church. This is found in 1 Timothy 4:1-3. Paul writes, “Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth.” Notice that these are they who have departed from the faith, who have listened to evil spirits and teachings of demons. In other words, their source of teaching is not from God, but from Satan. Paul says that their teaching are lies. What are some of the specific things that they teach? First they forbid marrying. Second, they command to abstain from meats. Now, do not these two doctrines fit exactly what the Catholic Church teaches regarding their own priesthood, that they cannot marry? Is not this exactly what Catholics teach regarding eating meat, namely that they cannot do it on certain days or at certain times of the year? Again, we have clear condemnation of Catholic doctrine within scripture.

This article could go on for many pages regarding the many additional errors that the Catholic Church teaches. We could discuss the doctrine of transubstantiation, the doctrine of purgatory, the doctrine of basing religion upon the traditions of men versus the word of God, and many different things, but these things specifically are mentioned specifically and condemned specifically in God’s word. Any clear thinking person can see the errors involved. We call upon all who are in the Catholic Church to renounce it at once and leave behind the evil institution which mockingly calls itself “The Church.”

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Dealing with Mistakes

Dealing with Last Year’s Mistakes

One of the unseen blessings of memorizing Scripture is that doing this opens the door to our souls. Solomon showed this when he said that a man is what he thinks in his heart (Prov. 23:7). What is perhaps even more remarkable is that what we memorized when we were children is so much a part of what we are today. We all know about what happened to Jack and Jill, Little Miss Muffet and the Old Woman Who Lived in a Shoe. We owe a tremendous debt to those who helped us learn spiritual truths when we were so much younger.

Are you dwelling on mistakes of yesterday?

Are you dwelling on mistakes of yesterday?

I am not sure what teacher required that I memorize the opening stanza of a poem which I can so easily recall now six decades after I learned it. It was written by Lolita Hiroshi (I did not memorize her name, but found it on Google), but the moral truth found in it still impacts my life.

I wish that there were some wonderful place

Called the Land of Beginning Again,

Where all our mistakes and all our heartaches

Could be dropped like a shabby old coat at the door,

And never be on again.

The reality is that such a place does exist. That land of beginning again is found in Christ. His grace is so amazing that He allows us to bury all the mistakes of the past and then to begin again. Paul said, “If anyone in Christ he is a new creation” (2 Cor. 5:17). That old man is crucified and buried in baptism, and we are raised to walk in newness of life (Rom. 6:3-6). Mistakes of the past are gone and laid aside like an old garment, and we clothe ourselves in Christ-like apparel.

This truth is vividly described in Paul’s description of those in Corinth. Before becoming Christians, they were fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, homosexuals, sodomites, thieves, covetous, drunkards, revilers and extortioners. There was no way, living that way, they could inherit the kingdom of God. But, Paul described what happened when they became Christians. “But you were washed…sanctified…justified (1 Cor. 6:9-11). They entered the “Land of Beginning Again.”

That same beginning is still available for those who have become Christians and made foolish mistakes. John says that the blood of Jesus cleanses us also (1 John 1:7). The Lord continues to see us a without spot, wrinkle and without a single blemish (Eph. 5:27). With humble hearts we can live each day in the “Land of Beginning Again.”

So, as this new year begins, let’s take time to have an honest look at changes we can make. With His help every wrong can be made right. Memorize His words about the “land” in which we live. Write them on your soul, today!

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Pursue God’s Plan

Pursue God’s Plan

In 2 Samuel 22:33, it states that, “God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect.”  Now, many young people believe that this verse is talking about how God gives you desires to achieve a specific goal through all the bumps of life like, being the best cheerleader, or the fastest runner, or the strongest football player.  People further believe that these goals are part of God’s plan for your life.  But, I think we need to look at a couple of verses before vs. 33.

Choose His Plan Get His Results!

Choose His Plan Get His Results!

In vs. 31, it states, “As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all them that trust in him.  For who is God, save the LORD? and who is a rock, save our God?”  In combination with vs. 33, it is talking about how God provided a pathway for David.  A pathway that is flawless and pure.  And, that way is through the Lord’s word, both written and given by the prophets and it was this way that guided David to safety and success.

Likewise, when we realize that God is our only source of divine help, then we will see that all other ways are a sham.  Other ways cannot shield us from the terrors and troubles of life.  And, the Lord is more than our defense, He is our power.  Therefore, when we find ourselves in a hard situation, remember that God has great plans for your life.  Talk to Him and let Him know that you appreciate His involvement in your life.  Let Him know that in Him you find strength even when you are feeling your weakest.  And when you do this, it will surprise you how the Lord will further bless your life.

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In Vain they do Worship

In Vain they do Worship

God has established he not be worshiped in vain and ignorant ways.

God has established he not be worshiped in vain and ignorant ways.

Jesus had a conversation with a woman at Jacob’s well where He told her, “in vain they worship Me, Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.” Paul told Titus not to heed the “commandments of men who turn from the truth” (Titus 1:14) and he taught the Colossians to “Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men (Colossians 2:8). Later in that same context, Paul went on to add that those who subject themselves to the ordinances of men will perish and to not even touch or handle them even though they may look appealing. Paul referred to this kind of worship as “will worship” which is of man’s devising and not according to God (V 20-23).

The scriptures teach that God does not accept just any old form of worship that man decides he wants to offer. Concerning worship, Jesus taught in John 4:24 that those who worship God “must worship him in spirit and in truth”. Worship in spirit means from the heart. We are to offer God worship from a desire within ourselves to honor and glorify Him. Those who show up to worship God at the assembly and do not have the right heart are not worshipping Him in the right spirit.

But worshipping in spirit only is not good enough. Paul wrote in Romans 10:2-4, “For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not according to knowledge. For they being ignorant of God’s righteousness, and seeking to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted to the righteousness of God.” Paul says all the zeal, heart and spirit in the world is no good if we have not submitted to the righteousness of God.

Therefore our worship must not only be “in spirit”, it must also be “in truth”. God’s word is truth (John 17:17) therefore worship in truth must be according to His word and not according to the devices and innovations of man.

So given the importance of true worship, how then does one be sure their worship is according to God’s righteousness and not according to man’s idea of righteousness? We look to the scriptures and we find the commands and approved examples of worship given to the Christians who lived at the time when the scriptures were written and the church was newly established. We offer those things as worship to God which they did in theirs nearly 2000 years ago. We diligently search His word and we find and practice those things they did which were approved or commanded and we reject anything for which there is no authority or command for in God’s word. We do not want to risk offending God by offering Him a form of worship which He did not ask for.

Christians offered acceptable worship to God in the first century and we have within the sacred pages of God’s word how they did it. If we will learn what they learned, do what they did, live how they lived and worship how they worshipped, we can be absolutely assured of being what they were then. Christians only, glorifying God in Heaven by offering Him the worship we know will please Him. We must always remember that God is the audience and our worship is a spiritual sacrifice offered up to Him from our hearts (1 Peter 2:5).

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