Are You Feeling Guilty?

Are You Feeling Guilty?

There are two kinds of guilt in the Bible. There is the feeling of guilt when our conscience condemns us—subjective guilt. There is also guilt for doing something objectively wrong. This guilt isn’t a feeling; it is a state of being that results from having sinned. It is the criminal that is pronounced guilty by the judge – objective guilt. The word “guilt” is found 79 times in the New King James Version. Seventy-eight times it refers to objective guilt. Once it refers to someone feeling guilty (Zechariah 11:5). The Bible uses the word “conscience” in association with the subjective feeling of guilt. The word “conscience” is found 30 times in the NKJV, and only in the New Testament. When our conscience accuses us (Romans 2:15), we feel guilty.

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We can do something about guilt.

The work of Jesus eliminates guilt of both kinds. First, the offering of Jesus blood eliminates objective guilt for those who believe and obey the gospel. Jesus said, “For this is My blood of the new covenant, which is shed for many for the remission of sins” (Matthew 26:28). Peter said to the guilty in Acts 2:38, “Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” Second, our guilty conscience is also cleansed by Jesus. Hebrews 9:14 states, “how much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without spot to God, cleanse your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?” This means that holding onto guilt is a choice we make for irrational reasons. Moreover, guilt prevents us from doing God’s work of evangelizing the lost. Let go of guilt, and get to work.

If we are feeling guilty about our past forgiven sins, then we are doing so for irrational reasons. Let’s think about some of those irrational reasons.

First, we may feel guilty due to self-blame. Some confuse blaming self with taking responsibility. Self-blame is really a mechanism to excuse oneself from responsibility. We tell ourselves, “I am guilty of [some wrong],” so I better not do [some right]. After all, I don’t want to be a hypocrite!” The truth is: you are a hypocrite for doing what is wrong. To stop being a hypocrite you need to do what is right. Guilt due to self-blame fails to act. Stop feeling guilty and get to work.

Second, we may feel guilty due to false standards. Those suffering from eating disorders often set up false standards of acceptance. They feel guilty when they eat because they tell themselves that eating will make them fat, and they will be rejected. False standards of acceptance are irrational, but it isn’t guilt that is the problem, but the false standard. Eliminate the false standard, and the guilt will disappear.

Third, we may feel guilty to control others. Some express feeling guilty to manipulate others to act like they want them to act. This brings false validation, and means that they don’t value themselves correctly. Such manipulation is sinful and irrational. The Christian’s validation and worth comes from Jesus.

The feeling of guilt is an emotion that we control. Others do not make us feel guilty; we make ourselves feel guilty. We must take ownership of our own behaviors, including our guilt, by handling them correctly through Jesus. Unbridled guilt robs us of peace, joy, love, and contentment. Trust Jesus, and let go of guilt.

 

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Gay: A Little Leaven Leavens The Whole Lump

Gay: “A Little Leaven Leavens The Whole Lump”

The First Baptist Church in Greenville, SC, made headlines with its decision to “allow same-sex couples to marry in the church,” “ordain gay ministers,” and “embrace the complexities of gender identity.”  The senior minister of one of the oldest churches in the city dating back to the early 1800’s explains how they came to this decision:

“What I heard was, ‘We need to do the right thing, regardless of what anybody thinks or says about us,’” says Jim Dant, the 184-year-old church’s senior minister who led the church through its six-month discernment. “There were a few people who said, ‘Are they going to start calling us the gay church in town?’”

The dialogue culminated into a consensus — the kind that, by the earliest tradition of Baptist discernment, resulted in a public affirmation by each present member.

The call wasn’t to render a verdict on whether homosexuality is right or wrong.

Instead, it was the general agreement of a congregation that it could hold divergent personal beliefs but still come together in a desire to worship and serve.

Apparently this had been a long time in the works.  The article outlines the gradual, step-by-step acceptance of this sin by the First Baptist congregation:

Throughout the years, First Baptist has identified itself as a congregation of moderate temperament.

And for years, the LGBT community has worshiped in the church alongside heterosexual peers.

The sentiment throughout much of the church’s recent history, Dant says, was one of general acceptance of the LGBT community, but with an unspoken, de facto “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy.

When the church recently decided to state its position clearly, it at first was “headed down the road to having a vote with winners and losers.”

Instead, he says, the conversation began as one of discernment with an eye toward reaching a statement of consensus.

Over the course of four Sunday evenings in November, more than 200 people sat in circles of eight and engaged in candid discussions.

Personal convictions varied, Dant says, and members made themselves vulnerable, on all sides, in a spirit of fellowship.

The discussions distilled into a central question: “Can you worship and live with the LGBT community in the church?”

The answer, for the most part, was yes.

The members then affirmed that “being open and welcoming to all people is part of the essential nature of our community of faith.”

The next crucial step, Dant says, was assuring members that no one would try to tell them that their personal convictions were wrong.

The process led to a brief but pointed consensus statement: “In all facets of the life and ministry of our church, including but not limited to membership, baptism, ordination, marriage, teaching and committee/organizational leadership, First Baptist Greenville will not discriminate based on sexual orientation or gender identity.”

In May, members of the congregation during a service were invited to stand to affirm the consensus statement. The vast majority stood. The few who didn’t were then offered the opportunity to stand to agree to remain in fellowship.

By the end, all were standing.

Today, First Baptist can perform same-sex marriages.

And members, no matter their sexual orientation, can serve in leadership roles and can be ordained as ministers.

First Baptist in Greenville reminds me of the church at Corinth two thousand years ago.  They had boastfully allowed an unrepentant sexually immoral person to stay among them rather than mournfully withdrawing fellowship from him.  God inspired the apostle Paul to rebuke them by saying:

It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father’s wife.  And you are arrogant!  Ought you not rather to mourn?  Let him who has done this be removed from among you.

For though absent in body, I am present in spirit; and as if present, I have already pronounced judgment on the one who did such a thing.  When you are assembled in the name of the Lord Jesus, you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.

Your boasting is not good.  Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump? 

But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler — not even to eat with such a one. 

Purge the evil person from among you.

— 1 Corinthians 5:1-6, 11, 13b

By allowing for years open fellowship with those in known, unrepentant sin, First Baptist had opened the door for its members to eventually accept the sin and no longer even attempt to put God’s will above their own.

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Whose will do you follow? Man’s or God’s?

Thus, they intentionally avoided “the call…to render a verdict on whether homosexuality is right or wrong” while claiming, “We need to do the right thing, regardless of what anybody thinks or says about us.”  Never mind that God specifically cites homosexuality as sinful in the New Testament (Rom. 1:26-28; 1 Cor. 6:9-10; 1 Tim. 1:9-10).

Thus, “the dialogue culminated into a consensus…the general agreement of a congregation that it could hold divergent personal beliefs but still come together in a desire to worship and serve.”  Never mind that God specifically commands congregations that “there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and same judgment” (1 Cor. 1:10).

Apparently, it’s more important for First Baptist to be popular and accepted by the world than it is by God.  Again, I’m reminded by the divinely inspired words of Paul:

For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God?  Or am I trying to please man?  If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

— Galatians 1:10

Christians, this is what happens when we “tolerate” unrepentant sin among us.  We end up accepting it, and by doing so we become God’s enemy even while we arrogantly and naively still consider ourselves to be his friend (James 4:4; 1 John 2:15-17).

Truly, “a little leaven leavens the whole lump!”

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A Universal Language

A Universal Language

Men have spoken a variety of languages since the Tower of Babel. On that day, God confused the languages of men because of the sins of men, so as to cause men to do that which He had previously commanded: multiply and cover the earth. (cf. Genesis 11:5-9) This variety of languages accomplished God’s purpose through the creation of a certain amount of division and confusion.

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Is your communication sharing love?

It is interesting to note, as a counter-event, that on the day in which God established the church through the preaching of the apostles, God gave those same apostles the gift of speaking in other languages, so as to allow them the ability to preach to all and sundry (cf. Acts 2:4-11). Where sin and rebellion had created division, the message of Christ would bring healing.

However, the presence of many languages remains a constant, and, lacking the miraculous gifts of the apostolic age, the only way in which men speak multiple languages today is through time and study. The need to communicate the gospel to others, in particular, creates a need for Christians to be able to cross the language barrier. It is no wonder, considering the great diversity of tongues, men sometimes dream of a universal language: a single language breaking down all linguistic and cultural barriers between men.

In pursuit of this goal, some have suggested math as a universal language, and, in a manner of speaking, numbers operate the same regardless of what language you speak. However, the ability of numbers to convey information to the common man leaves a little something to be desired. It would be difficult to hold a conversation when every nuance and word required you to sit down with pen and paper and work out the equations.

Others, likewise, have proposed music as a common language. But, while music does indeed cross cultural barriers, again it is not without its shortcomings. If you don’t believe this, try ordering a ham sandwich at a diner using nothing but a guitar to communicate. The waitress might be moved to tears by the beauty of the sound, but you’ll probably leave hungry. Everybody interprets the sound of music slightly differently, and notes themselves don’t convey concrete information, which makes it less than ideal as an actual language.

Rather than looking to math or music, let us consider another thing which crosses linguistic and cultural barriers, and which conveys our innermost thoughts and ideas far loftier than any symphony or sonata: the language of love. There is a universality to love which, when employed correctly, conveys some rather important concepts.

Our Lord Jesus showcased the ability of love to cross cultural boundaries when He taught the parable of the good Samaritan. The Samaritans were of a different nationality than the Jews, and the two nations hated each other very much; which is why Jesus chose a Samaritan for the parable. One of the Jews had asked Jesus: who is my neighbor? To which Jesus told the parable, using the actions of the Samaritan to highlight an important truth – rather than ask, “who is my neighbor,” it is better to ask one’s self, “how can I be neighborly.” Kindness, goodness and charity are appreciated no matter the language spoken, or the culture to which one belongs (cf. Luke 10:25-37).

In a like manner, Jesus told His apostles upon another occasion, “by this will all men know you are my disciples, if you have love, one for another.” (John 13:35) Loving others with genuine love and affection, doing good as Christ did good, being kind and joyful,… these thing communicates effectively to everyone something about the kind of person you are.

You don’t have to speak the same language to share a cup of cold water on a hot day. You don’t have to know the another’s tongue in order to appreciate a smile and a kindly offer of food. You don’t need to be a polylinguist to understand the affection and gentleness behind a mother’s kiss or a grandmother’s hug.  These are actions which communicate effectively across all linguistic barriers, and when done in the name of Christ, they, and countless like examples are an effective witness to the presence of the love of Christ.

Even when a language is shared, love is still a vital part of Christian communication. We read in God’s word: “though I can speak with the tongues of men and of angels, without love I am just a noisy gong, or a clanging cymbal (1 Corinthians 13:1).” Jesus most assuredly wanted love to be a large part of our vocabulary.

It’s still necessary, in the end, if we wish to fully communicate, to be able to understand the actual words that others are speaking. Without this, there will always be some amount of confusion (cf. 1 Corinthians 14:9). But love, as an aid to language, is indeed universal, and if we had a bit more of it in our communications, we would all be a lot better off.

 

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The Dragon, Sea Beast, and Beast of the Earth

The Dragon, Sea Beast, and Beast of the Earth

Those who are familiar with their Bible will recognize the entities in the title of this article as subjects in the book of Revelation.  This book seems to fascinate the masses.  It is colorful, figurative, and full of images that can excite and terrify the mind.  The mind of God penned through the apostle John provides a look at mankind under trial by the forces of evil and the mighty hand of God.  Ultimately, the book of Revelation could be summed up in one of a variety of words: “Hope”, “Comfort”, “Assurance”, or “Victory”.  It is a torch and a balm for the Christian.

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There is no power or evil which will not bow before God.

God provides an eternal rest for all those faithful to Him.  The one opposing God is the Dragon.  We know him as Satan or the Devil.  His major tools to destroy the beloved creation of God (mankind) are the sea beast and the land beast.  The sea beast is representative of corrupt nations or governments and their power to destroy and oppress.  The land beast is the false teacher, false religion, or false prophet.  Through these forces, Satan has persecuted, deceived, and devoured man and woman alike through the darkness of sin.

The reality of life is that God rules over all.  His authority is universal over everything in existence.  He has given the same authority to His son, Jesus Christ (Matthew 28:18).  The actions undertaken by Satan occur only because God allows them to occur.  As seen in the Book of Job, God sets the parameters within which Satan can operate.  Within these boundaries, Satan can afflict and tempt mankind.  Yet, Satan does not control man.  Man does not have to yield to Satan (James 4:7).  Man does not have to yield to a government leaving its authorized position (Romans 13:1-4; Acts 5:29).  Man can rebuff false religion as well (2 Timothy 4:2, Ephesians 6:16, Revelation 2:2, I John 4:1).  But why would God allow such things?  First the issue may be one of endurance, growth, and faith building (2 Timothy 4:5, James 1:12, I Peter 1:7).  Man is proven through the journey of life.  Second, the issue may be one of punishment (I Peter 2:13-14, Romans 1:24-32, Genesis 18, 19, Jeremiah 25:8-9).  God has long used his creation to discipline.  The third reality of the suffering and pain upon the earth is that from the beginning, God allows man to choose his path (Genesis 3).  However, every path man chooses will have consequences, each to his own benefit or loss. Man not only chooses his behaviors, but those behaviors impact others accordingly.

It may seem at times that the beastly wickedness of corrupt government and false religion has consumed all things, Satan moving his pawns as puppets on a string.  Yet, still there remains a remnant of God’s people undeterred, strong, and faithful.  The government may pass laws condemning scripture, prohibiting worship, punishing godliness, but despite their threats and power, God will bring their treachery to an end (Romans 12:19, 2 Thessalonians 1:8).  False religions go about teaching evil as good and good as evil (Isaiah 5:20), but “Woe” upon them for the Lord knows their deeds (Luke 8:17).  Those who teach beyond what has been shared by Christ and His apostles and prophets will be accursed (Galatians 1:6-10, Jude, Revelation 22:18-19).  Hold fast in the face of these trials (I Corinthians 10:13).  Hold fast in the face of the enemy (Psalm 23:4).  Stand fast in the truth of the Word of God (2 Thessalonians 2:15).  There is a victory coming (I Corinthians 15:57).  There is a crown of life awaiting (Revelation 2:10).  There is an eternal home in heaven (2 Corinthians 5:1).  In Heaven the Dragon, the Sea Beast, nor the Beast of the Earth shall every darken a corner (Revelation 20:10).  This is the hope given in Revelation and this is the faithful truth of God’s Word.

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The Lord Knows the Nature of Our Hearts

The Lord Knows the Nature of our Hearts

The old saying goes, “You can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can’t fool all the people all the time.” We are often very good at putting on a facade and fooling others, but we need to remember that we cannot and will not fool God. “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap” (Galatians 6:7). And be sure “your sins will find you out” (Numbers 32:23). The saddest thing is that some have fooled themselves into thinking their hearts are right with God when God knows the true nature of our hearts.

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God knows us and the nature of our hearts.

While King Saul ignored the true causes of his troubles, God saw everything clearly. So many of us need to do some serious introspection and consider the true nature of our hearts in humility and fear. Only when we clearly see our hearts as God sees them can we begin to understand God’s will for us.

As Saul pursues David in an attempt to kill him, David is afforded an opportunity to kill Saul a cave. Yet, even though he is encouraged to do so by his men, David refuses to “put forth mine hand against my lord; for he is the LORD’S anointed” (1 Samuel 24:10).

An important spiritual application for us to re-member is that Jesus declares those who are not with Him, are against Him (Matthew 12:30). In other words; those who are not faithfully serving the Lord are putting forth their hands against the Lord’s anointed. The Lord knows our hearts and who is on the Lord’s side. Are you faithful?

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